A weekly round up: eats, workouts, watches, and reads. Last week was a busy week, action packed with travel and a family party. I owe you another travel story, but first I need to pop in with a weekly round up or we will never catch up on books.
Eats
Nothing much to report, but we had a very fun family party this weekend. SIL#1 and family came to town in preparation for this summer's big family wedding, and the whole gang of us and our dogs met at SIL#4s house for a taco feast.
Watches
It's all about TV right now. I finished season seven of Outlander, just in time for season eight. Let's see if I can stay current for the final season.
Also up at bat: season two of The Pitt.
Reads
So much to talk about! Let's do this!
Sadly, all stories must come to an end, and I finished my slow savor of Inhale, Exhale. I recommend that you drop everything and get your hands on it ASAP.
But wait, what did I really think? I mean, I know the author so how about spilling some more tea?
The best way to tell you that is to compare it with the other books that I read in February. Here is the list in order started:
Heart the Lover by Lily KingThe Age of Innocence by Edith WhartonDaisy Jones and the Six by Taylor Jenkins ReidLovers and Writers by Lily KingGood Dirt by Charmaine Wilkerson (DNF)Inhale, Exhale by Nicole MacPhersonDon't Call it a Comeback by Keira D'Amato (DNF)
And here is the list ranked by order of enjoyment:
Lovers and Writers by Lily KingInhale, Exhale by Nicole MacPhersonHeart the Lover by Lily KingDaisy Jones and the Six by Taylor Jenkins ReidGood Dirt by Charmaine Wilkerson (DNF)The Age of Innocence by Edith WhartonDon't Call it a Comeback by Keira D'Amato (DNF)
Everybody who is anybody has read Heart the Lover recently, and is somewhat likely to have read Friends and Lovers. So now you have context for how much I adored Inhale, Exhale.
Alrighty, let's move on to books that I've picked up since we last talked:
First up, when a book wins the triple endorsement of Engie, Stephany, and Kim, it is a sign from the universe to get on that. Consider this post a quadruple endorsement for Promise Me Sunshine.
Next up, I had two really great audiobooks drop into my lap for my latest road trip. The only issue is that they were both about fairly heavy subjects so I had to take regular podcast breaks to cut through the doom mood that I was getting from both books.
Heavy but great book #1: Family of Spies by Christine Kuehn. The author had a similar experience to the author of We Were the Lucky Ones where an off hand comment made her realize that her family's experience in WWII was a bit out of the ordinary and that there was a book waiting to be written. And that's where the similarity ends! Kuehn's dad was always very tight lipped about the family's past, and a few inconsistencies in his story led her to "google that" in a pre-google world. She found that the family name was everywhere in the history books, for reasons that you can guess from the title. She went through periods of being fascinated and periods of being disgusted and walking away from the story, which is how she came to realize that she needed to tell it.
Heavy but great book #2: A Thousand Naked Strangers: A Paramedic's Wild Ride to the Edge and Back by Kevin Hazzard. Hazzard made his second career as a paramedic in Atlanta, and oh my he has some stories to tell. He also has a way with words and a certain tone that made this book a must read.
After finishing the heavy but good duo, my podcast feed was running low and I still had a few hours of road time left, so I went for a palate cleanser. Jenny and Julie recently read my official favorite book of last year, so I decided it was time for a revisit, but with the audio version this time. What book? Aw yiss, you know I'm talking about Sky Daddy. It is just as delightful (an odd word to describe a book about a woman who has a plane crash fetish, but accurate) the second time around.
Now it's time to talk about the DNF of the week, which is Midwives by Chris Bohjalian. This is a book club pick, and normally I would read it no matter what but I just couldn't even with this book. My first impression was "this is a book about women written by a man", and my second impression was "this is a really boring book about women written by a man that is about bad things happening to women and I don't want to read it". I asked ChatGPT to get me up to speed, and I understand what he was trying to do, but I just didn't buy the setting and was bored out of my mind. The kicker is that I've read two other books by the same author that were centered around female protagonists, and I never once had the "book about women written by a man" thought.
Last and not least: a classic that I ran into on the road. I grew up hearing the name Eudora Welty, but so far as I remember I never read any of her books. I had an encounter with her on my travels last week that had me reaching for my phone and browsing Libby. I just started The Optimist's Daughter. It's too soon to say what I think, but I'm looking forward to getting back to it tonight.
Peace Out! Who has read any of these books? I'll be back soon with the deets on my trip...I will leave you with the teasers that I had an encounter with a serious wad of cash and that I ran into something having to do with Eudora Welty.


I, for once, do not want to talk about books except to say that I'm glad you enjoyed Sunshine as much as the rest of us.
ReplyDeleteThat curly dog in the first photo looks like a stuffed animal. Why are dogs so cute?
Okay, let's talk about how it's a constant cycle of exhaustion and hard work. Isn't that how adult life is? I'm not even being snarky here. There's this depression worksheet we have to fill out EVERY SINGLE TIME we go to the doctor and one of the questions is something like "how often are you tired?" and I literally cannot. I'm tired as soon as I wake up, yo. And the most exciting moment of the day is going to bed. Is this not normal? Working out makes it worse, but I've heard that if you're sedentary, it gets EVEN worse, so I throw my body around regularly. And I still get winded going up the stairs. Am I broken? Is everyone broken?
How long has it been like this though? For me not until the past year or so. Something different is definitely going on - I'd put money on menopause in my case. In any case, the idea of a harder workout makes me want to scream, so I'm taking a few days off. I know that after a few days I will get the "I want to work out NOW" feeling and then I'll get back to it.
DeleteCurly Dog sat on my lap for a bit at the party. Everyone else thinks he's too big to be a lap dog, but he and I know differently.
This is Lisa - blogger won’t let me log in! I loved Nicole’s book, too. But I inhaled it in 26 hours! It was so great and I loved Nicole’s voice. I’m so amazed that she wrote a novel! I plan to read Family of Spies. And that EMT book sounds great, too. I’ve been living The Pitt so that is a good book to read for Pitt vibes, I bet!
ReplyDeleteYes to pairing A Thousand Naked Strangers with The Pitt! That's genius.
DeleteIt's good to reassess our relationships to fitness. As you know, I am doing that right now after my marathon. We need to move to stay healthy, but why do fitness we don't like, or that completely exhausts us. I hope you find something that you can enjoy and that doesn't wear you out!
ReplyDeleteI've just read Keira D'Amato's book on your list. We've "chatted" about that one. Trips are good for reading, though, and I can't wait to see where you went!
So far my body is happy with dog walking and hiking as my fitness for this week! Plus Doggo seems to like the extra walks that she's gotten out of the deal. Now to add some kind of strength back into the mix...
DeleteYou’ve read some great books, though I’m sad to see that you DNF Good Dirt, I liked that one a lot.
ReplyDeleteI love that you listened to Sky Daddy! That was a really good book, thank you for the rec.
Workouts…ugh. So boring. I mean, I love my yoga, and my walks are OK, though they were much better when I had Mulder keeping me company and now they’re kind of an obligation to myself rather than any joy. And weights. BAH on weights. I’ve started turning the sound off for my weight video, and listening to books or podcasts, which is 100% better. Maybe 1,000% better.
Walking is better with a dog and that's just a fact!
DeleteDog and taco party?!?!?! Amazing!
ReplyDeleteI am really looking forward to your thoughts on the fitness "fix" and your plans forward. I feel like I'm in a decent place with strength training, but then I injure myself and have to regroup. This happens ALL the time and it's so frustrating! I also realized that maybe I was putting too much emphasis on strength and neglecting cardio, but who has the time for both?!
Exactly - WHO HAS TIME FOR BOTH???????
DeleteMy body has been digging the "walking only" week - that's dog walks and a few hikes. We'll see what happens next.
Like Engie, the "cycle of hard work and exhaustion with no clear end game" line jumped out at me.
ReplyDeleteI feel exhausted pretty much non-stop during a marathon cycle. That's just part of the training process.
But your reply about this being possibly menopause does make it sound like a different flavour of tired. The "I don’t even want to work out" kind is not the same as the "I worked hard and now I’m tired" kind. Taking a few days off until the urge to move comes back sounds like a sensible approach.
Yes, there is "good" exhaustion and "bad" exhaustion. Mine is not leading me toward 26.2, so it's solidly in the bad exhaustion camp.
DeleteWow, Birchie!!! I am...speechless. Thank you SO much for this endorsement! Wow. I mean. YOU PUT ME IN BETWEEN LILY KING'S BOOKS OMG. Thank you so much, and I am SO happy you enjoyed it.
ReplyDeleteI have been exhausted this week as well. Is it time change, is it perimenopause, am I about to get my period, I don't know. Part of it I think is the unrelenting terrible news cycle. Despair? Ennui? I do not know. I know this is about working out, not being emotionally depleted, but maybe they are connected. It's strange, I have NO end goal when it comes to workouts, except, I guess, that I don't want my body to crumble and seize up. I think I talked about this on my blog but it was a while ago - I have had a downward Peloton trajectory for a few years now. I have to just practice non-attachment. But it feels kind of depressing to work out as hard as I possibly can and realize that I'm 85% of where I was 3 years ago. AT BEST. That's the trouble with those "metrics." So I guess my end goal is to just enjoy the workout, and I do - I enjoy Peloton even if my output is on the decline. I love yoga. I love walking. I don't love strength training but I do it so I don't get osteoporosis. So I guess that's my end goal, to be able to move and pick up things as I get older. The bar is low, it seems! I was at my doctor's a few weeks ago and I asked her about blood work, because I was feeling so tired. My blood work is normal. I think I'm just a woman in perimenopause.
Just tellin' it like it is! You had good words in your head, and you put them on paper and shared them with the world.
DeleteI dunno what's going on either...I'm tired!
Hello. Resident Old Lady here.
ReplyDeleteI simply want to tell you that perimenopausal and menopausal fatigue--physical, mental, and emotional--are very real. I am more than ten years post-menopause, so I am speaking from my own experience. Please do give yourselves some grace and try not to feel guilty or overly concerned about the days your workouts make you feel lousy, angry, or bewildered. So many things are happening, not only inside of you, but outside of you in the world at large. Women are being inundated with overwhelming messages. Our cortisol levels are on a rollercoaster.
Sometimes, you have to listen to your body. If you're miserable, stop. Do something else, perhaps. Above all else, manage your stress as best you can. That in itself will be a huge help.
Thanks Resident Old Lady!
DeleteI'm trying to figure out if I should not push myself and just ride it out, or if I should go the HRT route. TBD.
Books and dogs! My favourites! I read Midwives years and years ago and heartily concur - so boring, so not-written-by-a-woman. Loved Heart the Lover and loved the other book I read by Charmaine Wilkerson. And loved Inhale Exhale of course.
ReplyDeleteGood for taking a beat to think about fitness. Dog walking and hiking is great. Sometimes you just need to rest for a bit.
Books and dogs! Two of the best things in life.
DeleteI'm so glad you mentioned A Thousand Naked Strangers! I heard Kevin Hazzard interviewed on Fresh Air years and years and years ago, and the interview stuck with me, but I could never remember his name or the name of his book. The thing I remember most about that interview is how he said was about babies being born and how no one ever wants the baby to be born in the ambulance, but once the baby is there, everyone is so very very happy. Putting it on my hold now!
ReplyDeleteOh good! I can't count the number of times I've heard about a book that I wanted to read, completely forgotten about it, and then found it again when someone blogged about it. Yes, run and don't walk to get A Thousand Naked Strangers. No spoilers, but there is an entire baby chapter that I think you will be very happy with.
DeleteWow, you put Nicole's book above Heart the Lover- that's high praise! I also liked Writers and Lovers more than Heart. But I really liked them both, and Nicole's book as well. And Sky Daddy! And Age of Innocence- we had a lot of reading overlap this month.
ReplyDeleteYou could be experiencing some perimenopause symptoms. It could also be that strength training is so boring. Hiking is fun, running is fun (well, more fun for me I guess). I don't know the answer, because we're all stuck lifting weights as we age, so our bones don't crumble to dust. But it does seem tiring and unrewarding. I'll be interested to know what you come up with here.
I call 'em like I see 'em. I really liked Heart, but I liked Inhale, Exhale more.
DeleteThe family party with dog meetups sounds like a fun time. The wad of cash story has me on the edge of my seat. I've heard of some to these books and I did listen to Age of Innocence, but otherwise I've not read any of these. I've added Promise Me Sunshine, A Family of Spies, and A Thousand Naked Strangers to my list. I'm reading The Book of Lost Names and I'm really enjoying it. I'm listening to Culpability and that's hard to turn off.
ReplyDeleteNow I just need to find more blogging time so that I can tell the wad of cash story! I would have thought that ditching the job would have added more time for blogging but all it has done is given me more things to blog about that I can't find time to write about!
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