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Monday, May 25, 2026

Weekly Round Up: It Really is Weekly for a Change!

 


A weekly round up: eats, workouts, watches, and reads.  

The last time that we talked, I had just gotten on a train, so I have epic travel stories to tell you.  But we can't be on vacation everyday, so look at me finally dropping a weekly round up on a weekly basis!  Truth in advertising right here!

I firmly believe that everyone needs to have PTO from the internet, and real life takes precedence over blogging, but if I don't keep up a somewhat regular "normie" posting schedule, then I end up forgetting to tell you things and it makes for too much of a backup on books, so let's get into it.

Eats

When I got home from my trip on Saturday, I challenged myself to a "shop your pantry dinner" and a "trust but verify a Youtube cooking video" session.

The video claimed to be a new technique for stir frying frozen vegetables, which is an area that I need help with.  


I eyeballed two servings of veggies from my giant bag of Costco frozen stir fry veggies and played along at home.


To finish off the meal, I grabbed a serving of rice (which I always have because I freeze leftover rice in single serving portions) and a Costco shaved beef kit that I've had in the freezer for a while.  I cooked up the beef in the same pan after I cooked the veggies and casually tossed in a little soy sauce and sesame oil to season it.


Verdict: the veggie cooking technique is a winner!  The second portion made for a good lunch the next day.  I will be making up quickie stir fries often in my new solo cooking life.

Workouts/Wellness

Lol, even though I am not really formally working out, for some reason I just can't quit this section.  My big fitness accomplishments of the week were keeping up with my 3x per week body weight strength workouts on the road AND getting 10,000 steps in on an all train day.

Normally I don't care how many steps I get because I have a dog so 10k steps is pretty much a guarantee.  But on a day that was going to be 90% sitting I knew that I would feel better if I moved around.

When I got to the train station on Thursday for my return trip, I was at 1,000 steps.  Since there weren't very many people in my section of the train, I did laps up and down the corridor while I was waiting for the train to start.  As you can see, it is a narrow space and I had to hunch my shoulders in a little bit to avoid swinging my arms into the wall.  It took kind of a long time to get another thousand steps.

I made good use of the fresh air breaks (longer stops at stations where the passengers are allowed to get off the train for a few minutes) and found myself with 9k steps after the final break.  That was really enough to achieve the goal of getting in movement on a non movement day, but I felt like I needed to get the final thousand steps just for bragging rights.  The problem is that there were now more people on board and the train was moving, which made pacing up and down the corridor more difficult/impractical/obnoxious.

Walking in an Amtrak roomette is not really an option.  I took this picture while standing in the corridor.  All that you can really do is to take two steps, and the movement wasn't registering on my Garmin.


In the end I found that taking the two steps plus pumping my arms was the magic to getting the steps to register AND I was able to do it at a decent pace so it felt pretty good.  By close of business I had my 10k steps.

I'm going to write a detailed post about the train trip, but a quick preview is to tell you that no one rides Amtrak to get a great night's sleep.  I got mediocre sleep, and I talked to a few regular riders who told me that they used Benadryl for train nights.  For my non-train nights, sleep was pretty good this week.

Watching

I finished the final season of Outlander, which is a show that I started watching more than 10 years ago.  The ending was a long time coming!  I liked the final season but disliked the final episode.  I feel like it was just a slow montage of all of the characters + final event + a teaser to either do more episodes later and/or to confuse everyone.  Sigh.

On a much funnier note, someone tipped Hubs off to a BBC show with an interpretive dance segment.




Reading

If sleeping on a train was not all that, reading on a train made up for it.  Here's what went down:

First: a recommendation that delivered!  SHU wrote about a book with an awkward title that she said was tied with Sky Daddy for her favorite book of the year, and also said that favorite book contender was where the similarity ended.

The book is What You Are Looking For Is in the Library by Michiko Aoyama.  This book is so perfect that I don't want to tell you what it is about.  Yes it's about a library and reading, but that's just the surface.  The book is comprised of separate stories with a few connecting threads.  The first story was my favorite, and also I think somewhat Sky Daddy adjacent, though without any plane fetishes and with a very different ending.

I always say that I don't like to tell other people what to do, so let's just say that I strongly recommend dropping everything to get your hands on a copy of this book.

Second: a "good enough to keep reading" story, which is The Secret Lives of Murderers' Wives by Elizabeth Arnott.  It's the 60s and three women who either are or used to be married to convicted serial killers have struck up a friendship over their shared pasts.  When a new string of murders starts up, the wives see a connection long before the police do, and since they police don't want to hear from ladies in general and ladies who were married to serial killers in particular, they start investigating on their own.  My biggest beef is that I felt that the root cause of the crimes was a bit of a cliche, but the story kept me engaged up until it got to that point, so I have no cause for complaint.

Currently: the book that everyone else is reading except that I can't remember who.  This is Lake Effect by Cynthia D'Aprix Sweeney.  It's the 70s and the cracks in the marriages of the neighborhood friends group are starting to show.  So far I like it.

I had a little help in getting misled on where I heard about Lake Effect.  Back when Engie and I met up two years ago, we met at a coffee shop called Lake Effect Coffee in Milwaukee, so naturally I assumed that this was an Engie recommendation.  But when we talked last week (spoiler!), she said it wasn't her.

Peace Out!  I'll be back soon to tell you about the big trip and the train ride.  Who's read any of the books?

27 comments:

  1. It's Tuesday morning, still dark outside and I'm laughing my head off at that interpretative dance! I can't believe the women actually guessed the song (with a little help!)
    Well done on your 10'000 Amtrak steps!! I'm proud of myself for getting in steps at an airport, but this is clearly next level. There should be an international competition called "Getting 10'000 Steps Done Under Difficult Circumstances". You'd be a contender, Birchie!

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    1. We were laughing so hard we were practically crying at the interpretative dance.

      Compared to these folks, getting 10k steps on a train travel day is a very sedentary lifestyle: https://www.nytimes.com/2026/03/29/well/move/run-5k-van-tub-tiktok.html

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    2. Oh my goodness! That’s hilarious!! 😂

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  2. That is an impressive step count on a train! I mean, it's an impressive step count off a train as well. Kuddos!

    I have added What You Are Looking For Is in the Library because now two blogs said I should read it.

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  3. Oh, I had forgotten that SHU even mentioned What You Are Looking For and Sky Daddy in the same sentence... if anyone thinks these books are going to be similar, then they're in for a big surprise! Although you're right- the first story of Library does bear a slight resemblance to Sky Daddy. My favorite stories in Library were the first and last. Also, I read Lake Effect but I'm not sure I was the one who recommended it- because I got it from someone else but I can't remember who!
    I can't wait to hear all about the trip!!! I want lots of details from the train!

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    1. What we need now is a crossover where Linda goes to the library instead of the vision board party. It would have been a very different story!

      Don't worry, you will get lots of details on the train! I've seen so many Youtube Amtrak videos and I feel that I really got a heads up from those plus a few other things that I picked up on from getting the real thing.

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  4. I'm still in the queue for Lake Effect - I have a feeling it will be a while. I have my Kobo loaded up for my trip, mostly with light romances and things that do not take a lot of concentration. First up is The Friend Zone, I will report back.
    I don't use frozen veg that much but I really should - I will watch that video and, again, report back!
    Lol on your 10000 steps, I have been there, my friend *just keep pumping the arms*

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    1. Well, one reason you don't use frozen veg that much is that you have the real thing in your garden. But for the off season, Costco frozen veg is next level! I always felt that there is a weird taste to frozen broccoli, but theirs doesn't have that problem. Basically the money that we have saved by buying their frozen broccoli alone has more than paid for our membership.

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  5. Well done on getting 10k steps in while on a train!! That is impressive!

    I should also watch that video and master stir fry with frozen veg!

    I’m on the hold list for Lake Effect!

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    1. Do it! You will love the level up to the stir fry.

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  6. Holy crap--10k steps WHILE ON A TRAIN TRIP. I'm beyond impressed.

    And the photos of the train interior makes me even LESS likely to take a train trip.

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    1. There are larger rooms and cars with wider corridors, but I think you've got the gist: train travel means being in a small space and getting poor sleep. There are benefits as well, but those are two of the downsides. Sorry Rick!

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  7. Okay, a double recommend from you and SHU means this book is going on my list.

    I am so charmed and impressed that you managed 10K steps on your train day! That is an accomplishment for sure. I especially loved the details about keeping your arms tucked in while walking in the corridor and swinging them, I'm imagining enthusiastically, while in your own berth.

    Looking forward to hearing more about your trip!

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  8. I've not read any of these books, but I am hoping to get to the library today to pick my next book. I just finished The Road to Tender Hearts. Loved it. This is one week from being my reading season, as I'll be done with daycare duties for the summer. I do have a video to make recapping curly's life for her grad party, so that's a big project I need to tackle and might interfere with massive reading goals, but I'm excited to check out the book you suggest dropping everything to read, because every time you've suggested that I've really enjoyed the book.

    Your train travel is so timely. I'm currently writing a few chapters about my year abroad, specifically right now - the weeks I spent traveling around in Europe with my brother over Christmas break. I wish I had taken more photos on the trains we took, but photos were developed from film and film was purchased and I was a student - so I snapped photos of scenery that I felt was important. The trains though - so many nutty things happened on the trains. I wish I had more visual evidence to go along with it. Your compartment looks so comfy compared to the way we traveled.

    I'm here for upping my soggy stir fry game.

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    1. The Road to Tender Hearts got me in my feels. When I found out why the cat was following him....

      When I think about all of the technology advances in my lifetime, digital cameras are near the top of the list. Kids these days just don't know what it was like to have to pay for every picture that we took.

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  9. Good for you for getting in steps on the train. That’s dedication ;) I am still working through the last book of Outlander and I am way behind on the show, but heard mixed reviews of the final episode. I guess I’ll have to watch it eventually.

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    1. Watching Outlander was truly about the journey and not about the destination;-)

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  10. Count me among those who are impressed that you got your steps in on a travel day! Well done you! And think, you got even more steps in, because there are the steps that your watch didn’t count to consider as well.

    I started Lake Effect this morning, and thus far I’m enjoying it! I don’t remember who suggested it either, just that it was on my library list and popped up as available.

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    1. Lake Effect must be one of those books that got on everyone's radar at the same time.

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  11. Huh. I though What You Are Looking for in the Library was fine and gentle, but sort of forgettable. Interesting that it's the new It Book.

    I just DNFed Lake Effect. Books about troubled marriages stress me out way too much!

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    1. There was something about the tone of Library that was very relaxing. For me it was the equivalent of getting a massage and a really good night of sleep.

      I am LOVING Lake Effect! Ironically I do have marriage problems, but nothing at the level that the Lake Effect crew has. For some reason I'm finding it to be very comforting/entertaining.

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  12. I also agree people should take PTO off the internet! People are too chronically online!!! But that is not the point you were making 😂

    Nice work getting your steps in while traveling! I was curious about the sleep on the train and if it would be decent at all ☹️

    Ooo, I wonder if I would like What You Are Looking For Is in the Library! Sometimes books about reading are really off the mark for me but I am curious. (Okay but now that I see there is a CAT on the cover I am IN!)

    I only have two weeks left on my Lake Effect wait! I first heard about it on Stephany's blog.

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    1. Well, it's a double edged sword. Everyone needs to take PTO from the internet, but some of us need to not take too much time off.

      I'd recommend Library for you. It's really not about reading, and there is a cat on the cover (though I don't remember a cat being part of the story - someone fact check me on this).

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  13. Ooh, you have sold me What You're Looking For is in the Library! Sounds adorable and just what I need.

    I read and loved Lake Effect! One of my top reads of the year but there's a long way to go, ha.

    Getting 10k steps during a train day?! I am so impressed!

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    1. I'm almost done with Lake Effect and I adore it. Enjoy Library!

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