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Monday, December 29, 2025

Weekly Round Up: Christmas Recap

 


A weekly round up: eats, workouts, watches, and reads.  Let's talk Christmas plus all of the other stuff that we usually talk about.

A Christmas Miracle

I'd like to introduce you to Doggo's cousins. The black lab (girl) belongs to SIL#4 and the standard poodle (boy) belongs to SIL#3.  The dogs all get along well, and their favorite party game is to see how many times the hoomans have to refill the communal water bowl.  I'm sure that they have a count somewhere.

Doggo has always gotten on well with other dogs, but she is still working on how she feels about people.  For the past few months, her party strategy has been to hide.  However at the family Christmas party with 12 people and three dogs, she decided to be a social butterfly.  She was mostly at ease and worked the room for attention and treats.  It was heartwarming to see.

Christmas Party Recap

We went to SIL#4's house.  The standard menu is that she gets takeout lasagna from a really good Italian restaurant, and everyone pitches in to fill out the rest of the menu: garlic bread, a giant salad, and dessert.


The dessert menu was as follows.  You've seen most of the goodies in previous years, but it's always worth repeating:
  • Oreo balls.  Mix one box of oreos and one block of cream cheese in a food processor, let it cool in fridge, roll it into balls, freeze the balls, and then dip in dipping chocolate.
  • Averie Cooks soft & chewy M&M bars - you must double the recipe, which is my standard adjustment for all of her dessert recipes.
  • Christmas Crack
  • Eggnog cookies.  Knowing that the frosting is scant, I made a full batch of the cookies and 3x of the frosting.  I had some frosting leftover, but I think I was better off than trying to skate by on 2x of the frosting.
  • And of course the new kid on the block: a double batch of Kelly's brown sugar shortbread cookies.
As far as Christmas presents, whoever said that money can't buy happiness has never known the pleasure of going to Home Goods and finding a giant banana dog toy for $10.


Eats

I pulled off a fun family dinner last week.  We'd had a few nights of meeting up with friends, which meant a stretch of heavy dinners, so I was looking for something lighter but still a cut above our normal dinners.  As you may know, I can't stand chicken and Hubs feels the same way about seafood.  The other item in play was that one of the aforementioned heavy dinners was at Longhorn Steakhouse.  Our meals both came with side of mac and cheese, which was obscenely good but way more than we could eat so I brought the leftovers home.  The problem was that it wasn't enough to use as a side.


I made shrimp for the three members of the family who like shrimp and pan fried a chicken breast for Hubs.  I roasted Costco frozen broccoli and a few carrots in the air fryer, and made a boxed rice pilaf.  Then I added the tiny portions of mac and cheese along with everything else.  

In other fun family dinner news, the grocery store has been flush with cheap ripe avocadoes, so I took it as a sign to make crunchwraps.  One pound of ground beef was enough for dinner for four plus dinner for two last night when the boys went out and it was just Hubs and me.



Workouts/Wellness

It's on!!!  I signed up again for the hiking challenge that I've done two years in a row now.  In the past I've started in on January 1st, but the official start date is December 26, so I hit it as soon as it started this year.  Which is just as well since we had a few nice days and now we're in the middle of a winter storm and will have extreme cold for the next few days.  


The challenge has been a little different each year, but it centers around an extensive trail system.  This year they added in an "overachiever" category of bonus hikes in other area parks, so the challenge is to complete 24 hikes that are 120 miles total (the hikes range from 2.8 miles to 6.8 miles) and there is an "overachiever category" with five bonus hikes outside of the main park for an additional 20 miles.


The first year I completed the hikes as soon as I could, which was by March 31, and last year I stretched things out and took until the end of June (the official challenge end) to do the trails.

This year I'm going to aim for double or nothing: do all of the hikes including the bonus round twice.  My only modifications are that I'm going to cut some of the longer hikes into smaller pieces so that more of them are in the 3-4 mile range and fewer are in the 6-7 (SIX SEVEN!!!) mile range.  I love hiking for an hour or two, but three hour hikes are a bit too much of a good thing.  I also don't like summer hiking nearly as much as I like winter and spring hiking, so that points toward an earlier finish.  I don't have a specific time goal, but I'm thinking 3-4 hikes on the weeks that I'm not traveling when the weather allows should get 'er done by the end of April.  Stay tuned.


I don't generally take Doggo on these hikes because the footing can be treacherous (for a human, not for a dog, which means that it's even more treacherous for a human with a dog), the trails can be very muddy, and there's always a chance that it might be too cold for her.  We've been sticking to the trails in our city parks, and here is the Top Walk Photo of the Week.


On the wellness front, my sleep has been garbage lately.  I can't fall asleep, and I've been constantly falling victim to what I call "the three o'clock hole" which is where I wake up at some ungodly hour and can't fall back asleep.  It was so bad that in the past few days I've asked everyone that I know for ideas.  The two top recommendations were melatonin and CBD, and I had never tried either.  Last night I took some melatonin, and it was fabulous for getting me to sleep, a bit less successful for the three o'clock hole, but I did sleep in later than normal this morning.  I feel a little groggy, but I'm coming off at least of week of poor sleep, and groggy is better than than the "my brain cannot brain" feeling of no sleep that I had the day before.  To be continued...

Watching

Not much.  Hubs and I saw Die Hard last week (got to get a token Christmas movie in there somewhere), a few Alfred Hitchcock movies, and Hubs and I watched another episode of Severance.  So far it's just an OK show for us, but we're sticking with it because everyone loves it.

Reading

I finished my reread of Rebecca and I had forgotten how good it was.  It's an easy 😻😻😻

I wrote up a full book vs movie summary smack down for the next Hitchcock recap post that will be coming out in a few days, and I promised to make a determination on which is better, the book or the movie.  Guys, I can't do it.  I'm biased in favor of the movie because I saw it first, but I also love the book so much.  The one thing that I think is better in the book is that the ending isn't clearly spelled out.  You're given the pieces of what the narrator and Max see as they drive back to Manderley, but it's up to you to put them together to figure out what happened.  That doesn't work very well in a movie, so they have to show us exactly what happened.  I do like endings that have a "you figure it out" element, so possibly if I had read the book first I would like the movie a bit less.  As it stands, I am deadlocked, but what a great book/movie.

Currently reading: a Work Hell book!  Discontent by Beatriz Serrano is about a woman who has a successful marketing career on the outside, but spends her work days watching YouTube videos and taking tranquillizers. I love the voice of the main character, and I can't wait to get back to it.

After finishing 168 Hours, I very much wanted to read another Laura Vanderkam book, so I asked around.  Elisabeth flagged that Tranquility by Tuesday was the book that inspired her to start her blog, so that made it a must read (okay, okay a must listen since I did it on audio but you know what I mean).  I was not disappointed.  I've been very guilty at focusing on the future at the expense of the present, and I love her focus on making sure that the present gets its due as well.

I continue to read a chapter a night of Best Laid Plans, and if there was ever a book worth taking a bit of time over, this is it.  I missed a few days for Christmas, so I'm only a few chapters in.

Peace Out!  How was your Christmas?

34 comments:

  1. What a cute pics of all the dogs! I would never guess they are playing the water game by their innocent faces.

    That sounds like a perfect way to do your xmas meal! I wish my family would take note!

    Heck yes. When the universe shows you a sign to make crunchwraps, YOU MAKE CRUNCHWRAPS!

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    1. That's some powerful life advice right there: MAKE CRUNCHWRAPS.

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  2. Try magnesium for better sleep!

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  3. That sounds like fun Christmas, Birchie and I am glad that the dogs all get along so well. That makes things a lot easier, I suppose.

    I love that you signed up for the hiking challenge again and you’re making it your own! That’s a perfect goal to work on through the year! I love that .

    The crunchwrap looks so good (and I have said that exactly HOW MANY TIMES now? LOL)

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    1. The more you say it, the more likely you are to make your own and keep saying it!

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  4. Every time you post about the crunchwraps I want to make them and never do. I MUST fix this problem, Birchie. In fact, I need you to draft me up a menu for the next month, please. Everything you make and post sounds DELISH.
    Love, love, love the dog cousin shot at Christmas.
    Joy has finished reading Rebecca so one of my goals for the year is to watch it with her. AND she reminded me she has yet to read The Enchanted April. When she does, we're going to add that to our must watch list.
    Sleep can be hit and miss for me, too. Mostly deep sleep. I've used melatonin and CBD in the past. Melatonin definitely helps but I know for a lot of people it gives bad nightmares. Magnesium is probably what has helped me the most (citrate works the best, I think, but I hate the taste dissolved in water and that seems to be the most effective for me but life is too short for that misery so now I take biglycinate).
    Love all the dessert options. YUM!

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    1. How many days out of the next month will your family eat crunchwraps? Let me know and we'll plan the rest of the meals from there;-)

      I have yet to read The Enchanted April! I mean I read it a long time ago but I have not done my reread yet.

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  5. Okay, that pictures of the doggos is priceless! And all the eats look great!

    As far as sleep, I feel you on the early morning wake-ups. I've been trying magnesium before bed. Hungry Runner Girl says she's trying progesterone (https://hungryrunnergirl.com/2025/12/the-time-i-finally-got-rid-of-my-acne-night-sweats-being-awake-from-1-4-am.html). Here's hoping you figure out a solution that works for you!

    While I'm not really a dog person, dog toys are definitely a way to buy happiness. My parents had a husky, and his gifts were usually the most exciting, especially as adults.

    That hiking challenge looks well...challenging, but fun. Enjoy!

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    1. I read that post, but I must have been tired at the time b/c I missed the part about sleep - which is about 75% of the post. Noted!

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  6. My Christmas was very nice and that is partly due to you! I read your blog posts when you visited British Columbia, and when you came to Vancouver you wrote about visiting Roedde House Museum, designed by the architect Francis Rattenbury. Your post jogged my memory to make a point of visiting the museum at Christmas for the reading of The Christmas Carol, my favourite Christmas story.

    I went with my daughter on Dec. 23rd and it was lovely! The house is interesting, the reading was fun, as we moved from room to room and there were special effects - chains rattling, Marley's ghost appearing etc. Also, proceeds went to charity.

    So, thank you for coming to B.C. and reminding me of this attraction that has been on my Christmas to do list for a few years that I can finally satisfactorily cross off :)

    My husband has found chamomile tea after dinner helpful for his sleep issues.

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    1. YES!!! I'm so glad that you went to the Roedde House! I can't wait to come back to BC.

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  7. Magnesium recommendation here too! I take it every night and it's quite amazing. You can add zinc as well (CBD did nothing for me, and I've never tried melatonin).

    And wow, Double Overachiever unlocked 🎉 This hiking plan is ambitious but smart, and very you. You’ll enjoy it, and odds are it’ll do your sleep a favour too.

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    1. I know a couple of people who are very pro CBD, but I'm also hearing a lot of "it didn't work for me", so that was a good part of why I started with melatonin. My next task is to look into getting a magnesium supplement.

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  8. I'm so glad the melatonin (kind of) worked. In my experience, after a run of bad sleep it takes a little bit to start to feel human again. I also take magnesium and it does help but I didn't find it was a magic bullet. I think every little bit helps. I think I told you I've been using BCAAs and that honestly was a bit of a magic bullet for me. Sleep is just so important and I wonder if all the changes - perimenopause plus retirement - might be exacerbating things. Anyway, I hope it gets figured out and soon, because Birchy needs her zzzs. Also, and I know this makes me sound like a pill popper but SO BE IT, but if I have a run of bad sleep I'll take a sleeping pill or a nighttime Advil to get me back on track. Sleep begets sleep, it seems like to me. Am I a sleep evangelist and will I write a whole post-like comment here about it? Yes, I guess so.
    On to the other things! Like a giant banana! I'm glad Doggo is getting more used to people. Things always take more time than I think they are going to. Rex was so scared of things like the tape measure, he would hide under the table when Rob would measure things. It took him years to get over it. He still gets scared when someone brings out the fly swatter. Obviously the rambunctious little boys who had him as a puppy had an effect on him. Maybe Doggo had something happen, but she's starting to realize that she's safe around people who aren't HER specific people.
    Does this comment make ANY sense, I don't know, I've been on blog break for a while and now I'm writing TOMES in comment sections and I've only had one cup of coffee. ENJOY READING THIS AND TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHAT I'M SAYING.

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    1. Your comments always make a ton of sense! Bring on the tomes!

      I took another melatonin last night and had a second great night of sleep and I feel almost human. I'm going to keep doing whatever I need to do to get a run of good sleep nights. I think it's great to start with non medication methods - for example if I can't sleep because I'm upset about something, then listening to a sleep meditation is gold. But whatever is causing the current sleep problems is not something that I can listen my way out of.

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  9. aww you are the best! ALSO I am adding the Work Hell book to my TBR. Characters that are unraveling are my jam (did you ever read "My Year of Rest and Relaxation by Ottessa Moshfegh??)

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    1. I had never heard of My Year of R&R and now I can't wait to read it! You said it better than I ever could: Characters Who Are Unraveling Lit.

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  10. The Magi Dog Photo made me so incredibly happy. I could not get to the post fast enough to read about it. That should be a Christmas card. FOR EVERYONE.

    Also, I need the giant banana for Zydrunas, the granddog. As soon as I leave this comment, I am going to look online for it. Then to Home Goods.

    Kudos to you for your energetic trail goals. I will be with you in spirit. Today's cold and snow would be NOTHING to me if I could only bundle up, fire up my heated coat, and get out there for my walk. Sigh.

    As far as sleep: my neurologist gave me a Sleep Hygiene Routine, and it is helpful. Every evening I start wearing sunglasses at 7 PM; stay off screens (phone, computer) by 9 PM; sleep in a cool, completely darkened room (no digital light, no nightlight, etc). TV is exempt from no screens rule. Maybe it will help you.

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    1. It's been too cold since yesterday to do any hiking, so I'm making do with shorter dog walks. Brrr!!!

      I hope that you find a Giant Banana! It's priceless. So far it's still intact, which is not the norm for dog toys.

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  11. LOOK AT THOSE GOOD PUPPIES!! I want to give them all the treats and belly rubs.

    Hannah is never going to get used to people. She's getting more and more people averse as she gets older and now I'm really at the "old dogs don't learn new tricks" part of dog ownership. *sigh* Poor thing. She's so scared of people and I don't know how to help.

    I have rarely had problems sleeping (KNOCK ON ALL THE WOOD), so I don't have any advice. Basically, I'm physically and mentally exhausted every night and that has worked for me. I slept for ten hours on Saturday night. So whenever I hear these stories of non-sleep, I get nervous. Is that my future? Does this happen to all of us?

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    1. Between you and me, I don't think that Doggo is ever going to comfortable with people, except for the occasional miracle like the party. But at least we have that one success under our belts!

      I hate to tell you, but I've run the gamut of physical and mental exhaustion but still have sleep problems so...unfortunately it is very likely something to do with my age which will be your age in about 6 years if I remember right. Stay strong and defy the odds!

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  12. I legitimately cackled at the “SIX SEVEN”! (Yes, I wrapped some of my tween’s gifts in 6-7 paper.) (No, she did not see the humor as much as her parents haha!) How exciting for your hiking challenge - a bonus and doubles! Also, so glad Doggo had a lovely and social holiday! Our Maysie enjoyed her first Christmas but maybe more enjoyed being allowed in the living room, haha!

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    1. Thank you Lindsay! You get me!

      Baby's first Christmas!!! I bet that Santa brough Maysie lots of goodies.

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  13. I just have so very many things to say. Firstly, THREE DOGS. Secondly, the secret count of water bowl refills is cracking me up. Thirdly, I'm going to stop counting my points. The desserts look FABULOUS. I don't like M&Ms (except peanut butter ones) but I think those soft cookie bars look delectable... they would probably be pretty great with chocolate chips, right? Or TOFFEE???? And I did not make Christmas crack this year but I love it so very much. There's still time, right? YASSSSSSS to the double challenge! You are why they need an overachiever category! Lol to the 6-7 reference. We have had blissfully few (but not none, oh no, far more than none) 6-7 references this winter break and I am enjoying it. Doggo needs to be a model for the trail challenge. NOOOOOOOOOO to the poor sleep. The three o'clock hole sucks. Please know that at any time you can text me at 3:00 am and it is quite possible I will text you back. Allison and I frequently text at 3:00 am. It feels less lonely, but does not make me less tired the next day. I HAVE NEVER SEEN DIE HARD. I think it's 100% to not be able to choose between book and movie. They are totally different formats, which makes them different full stop. (Although I am also very happy to be able to say with confidence "the X was better than the Y" so I clearly have flexible beliefs.)

    We have had a LOVELY and very relaxed/relaxing winter break so far. There have been too few cookies, but somehow more than enough sweets. Funny how that works. Also: SNOW and nowhere we need to be! Hooray!

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    1. Suzanne, you are my people. M&Ms are so overrated. I do enjoy the look of the seasonal ones. The recipe uses mostly chocolate chips with just a bit of M&Ms for pizzazz, so yes you would not miss anything if you took the M&Ms out. They would be fabulous with toffee.

      The Cool Bloggers Insomnia Club! We are here for each other.

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  14. I came home on Saturday to BLP in my mailbox! I can't wait to dig in after I finish my current read + my Feb book club book (can't extend the hold on that so need to get it read quickly!).

    Your Christmas spread sounds wonderful! Catering lasagna is the right decision as it is so much work to make IMO and it's never as good as when a pro does it (again, IMO, there could be exceptions to this rule but probably not).

    I'm reading "We Would Never" which is the first plotty book I've read in the longest time but then I will switch over to Dominion which I think was kind of meh for you but sounds perfect for me.

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    1. You are correct - I will never ever never make lasagna again as long as this restaurant is in business.

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  15. THE THREE O CLOCK HOLE. Yes, that's been my life lately too. I've found that Advil PM does the trick. I still wake up (I'll never make it through the whole night without a trip to the bathroom) but I feel kind of groggy, and fall back asleep easily.
    Gah, those cookies! I made Christmas crack, burned the caramel, and everyone still liked it. They've asked me to make it again (without burning it).
    I love Doggo and her Christmas banana. And, I love the hiking challenge! It sounds amazing.

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    1. My first batch of Christmas crack was a little too well done, and my second batch was a little too chewy. It doesn't matter, it's always the first thing to run out on the cookie tray!

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  16. I cannot handle the picture at the top with all those goodest babies. AHHHHH. Doggo is looking especially gorgeous in that photo!

    Your hiking challenge sounds so ambitious and I love that for you! I am a no-go on hiking - the ONLY two times I've gone hiking, I've broken an ankle. I am BANNED FROM HIKING.

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    1. The trails can be rough! If I ever got injured let alone broke an ankle on the trail, I would probably become an instant non-hiker.

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  17. I think Annabel might need that giant banana. Everything looks so delicious and so festive!

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