Tuesday, November 25, 2025

Weekly Round Up: A Walk in the Park

A weekly round up: early retirement life, eats, workouts, watches, and reads.

Early Retirement Life

My tentative plan is to alternate weeks at home with weeks of either travel or local adventures.  By rights this should have been an adventure week, but fate had other plans and I got the Cold from Hell instead.

The upside of being sick in retirement is that if I'm tired I can simply get into bed and rest instead of having to power through work.  The downside is that not being able to sleep due to uncontrollable coughing is pretty miserable regardless of your employment status.  I'm feeling nearly back to normal now.

My "early retirement when sick schedule" is to get up when Hubs gets up, have a good long couch rot session, do my morning learning session with breaks for body weight exercises, have lunch and walk the dog, and to pick away at a few tasks in the afternoons.  I'm finding it useful to keep a to do list on my phone which I fill in as things come to me and then I'll pick 2-3 things from the list to work on in the afternoons.  Examples are various house projects, the normal cleaning stuff, replacing batteries in a handful of random items, doing our Thanksgiving shopping...you get the idea.

Eats

Nothing notable to report.  I've been so tired this week that food was the furthest thing from my mind.

Workouts

Doggo and I went to a park about 20 minutes away that I've always meant to explore this weekend and hiked all of the trails (four 1 mile routes, so a very doable project).

She got to pose with her spirit animal.


And enjoyed a little rock climbing.

Watching

As I suspected, retirement is not a time of endless TV watching.  I continue to knock back Alfred Hitchcock movies in the evenings and that's about it.

Reading

Let's talk!

I finished Strangers on a Train by Patricia Highsmith.  I'm going to include a spoiler discussion in my next Hitchcock installment on the differences between the book and the movie, but I'll go ahead and tell you my verdict.  The movie had to change a key plot point to comply with censorship standards, which waters down the message of the book.  However, the movie still wins!  The way that the actors bring the characters to life and the overall fun and zip of the movie is priceless.

I also finished 168 Hours: You Have More Time Than You Think by Laura Vanderkam.  I can't think of a better point in my life than the start of retirement to have read this book.  My average experience with self help books is (1) big splashy title, (2) author tells great opening story, and (3) the rest of the book is filler, so I was delighted to see that (3) was quite different for this book.  I had heard of the list of 100 dreams, and I kind of got it but it helped to have more of an explanation and a purpose.  The list of 100 dreams can include things that you've already done, and the purpose is to have a list of "I want to do that" things ready to go to help you direct where you want to spend your time.  She advocates against low value activities such as cooking elaborate meals every single night and having a squeaky clean home.  This jives with my day two retirement experience of realizing that deep cleaning my house was not how I wanted to spend my time.

I read the Hot It book of the moment, which is Wild Dark Shore by Charlotte McConaghy.  It was very readable, and in that sense I enjoyed it, but was left at the end with a "the world is going to hell so what's the point?" vibe.

I started a new audio book that I am loving, which is This American Woman: A One in a Billion Memoir by Zarna Garg.  The author grew up in India, and watched her dad set up arranged marriages for her older siblings, which was the norm.  However, when her mother died when she was 15, her dad decided that it was time that she got married, which had her heading for the streets and later getting a student visa to live with her sister in the US.

Peace Out!

32 comments:

  1. Gah, you were sick! I hope you’re all better by Thanksgiving.

    Sounds like retirement is treating you very well!

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    1. I'm almost well, but Hubs got it too so the countdown is on for him to get better in time. He's got to since he's the family turkey chef!

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  2. Oh no! You were sick! Colds are so awful, especially when they involve a cough. I am glad you could relax and rest and not try to fit work in! Retirement FTW!

    I really enjoyed 168 hours when I read it. And I fully subscribe to life being too short to have a spotless house and frequently washed bedding. But I know that is very important to others. It just isn’t to me. Our house is tidy but far from spotless!

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    1. The cough has gotten so old...but it's on the way out!

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  3. Your pup is so cute! Hope you get feeling better. Happy Thanksgiving!

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  4. That "Cold from Hell" timing is rough, but your sick-day retirement routine is surprisingly functional. Couch rot, learning block, dog walk, a couple of small tasks, that’s a solid rhythm for someone who is sick!

    The running list on your phone is smart. And I love that "100 dreams" idea!
    I just looked it up on Perplexity and gave me a detailed explanation. It seems a lot broader than my "places to hike/see" list...I'm going to work on my list, there are a lot of things I need to add! Thanks for the nudge!

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    1. I like the 100 ideas list! It's kind of a real time bucket list. Spend one night in every state and province would be only one item on the list, so I've got quite a bit to go to fill mine!

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  5. Oh no, I'm so sorry you were sick! Hope you're feeling better for your holiday week (when you're retired, every day is a holiday/ no day is a holiday?).
    I have Wild Dark Shore on my list but I am not a fan of dystopia and Suzanne has nervously warned me that it is dystopia-adjacent. I will report back!

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    1. WDS is very readable, so I think you'll enjoy the ride even if the dystopia-adjacent stuff doesn't work for you.

      I'm very strict about having separate weekend and weekday routines! Weekdays are "get stuff done" days and weekends are for hiking and loafing!

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  6. Oh no! There are some nasty bugs going around. I hope that you and your husband are all the way well soon and can enjoy the holiday and your continued early retirement. Happy Thanksgiving!

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    1. Thanks Sarah! We're nearly back to normal and looking forward to tomorrow.

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  7. Oof sorry about the cold. I’m not much of a self help book reader, but that one sounds decent. . . Especially if I get to feel ok for not having a squeaky clean house and for not cooking elaborate meals.

    I heard Zarna on Good Hang podcast and just checked her book out of the library.

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    1. 168 Hours will make you feel very OK! It's about directing your time to the things that you value.

      I've listened to a few more hours of Zarna's book since I wrote this post and it just keeps getting better and better. Who knew that a memoir about escaping from an arranged marriage in your teens could be so funny?

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  8. I really enjoyed Wild Dark Shore.
    My favourite LV book is probably Tranquility by Tuesday (it's the reason I started blogging), but I also LOVE Off the Clock. The latter is what introduced me to her work and, ultimately, SHU!

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    1. I was wondering where to go next in LV's canon and you read my mind! I put in my hold for TBT.

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  9. Ugh, a cold stinks! Especially one with a nasty cough.

    You are doing a great job with retirement so far! I am loving reading about your adventures.

    As you know, WDS, blew my mind. I totally agree with the feeling of inevitability about the earth ending... but to me, that IS the point. The worst happens, and yet still, life persists!

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    1. It does stink, but at least it's finally on its way out! And good riddance!

      I am enjoying doing nothing!

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  10. Ugh! I am glad you are feeling better and can get back to trying out your new routine! That is really smart to have a list to pick from each afternoon.

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  11. I'm reading the comments, and it sounds like you're feeling better, so yay for that! I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

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  12. I'm sorry you've been sick - I hope you are feeling better soon. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

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    1. Thanks for stopping by Martha! Happy Thanksgiving!

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  13. I LOVE to see Doggo platforming in that first photo. Hannah is such a nervous Nellie, I struggle to get her on anything higher than four inches. *sigh* But Doggo is so brave! Look at her on those rocks! She's an adventurer!

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    1. It's amazing (and a little scary) to watch her on rocks. The first time that we saw her skills was when we took her hiking last year. It's got to be either a natural instinct or she must have been in an environment like that when she was a little puppy before she was taken into the shelter.

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  14. You're so disciplined about your early retirement day-today... impressive. Do you like to stick to a schedule?
    I had to chuckle about the line "have a good long couch rot session" LOL I hope you're all better.

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    1. I like a loose schedule for weekdays, and anything goes on weekends. I'm not very strict with it, but it feels good to get my learning stuff done before noon, take the break with the dog, and then have the "chores" confined to a small part of the day. Mind you, it also helps to have a dog and to be "forced" to take breaks for walks.

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  15. Somehow in the flurry of NaBloPoMo I missed this post! I know you mentioned in a comment that you were sick- ugh. As you said, at least you didn't have to power through work.
    The hikes with Doggo look really fun! I kind of want a dog to hike with.
    Hmm! I'm going to see if I can get the Laura Vanderkam book from my library.

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    1. Dog walking is the best. You're tied to a cute furry thing that is having an epic time, and your job is to chill and let the dog explore. There are a couple of options to take a dog walk without owning a dog: borrow one from a friend or volunteer at a shelter.

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  16. I feel like Doggo is LOOKING INTO MY SOUL in that first photo. What does she see?? Should I be concerned?? TELL ME, DOGGO!

    I'm sorry you got sick but yes, getting sick during retirement > getting sick and having to power through work. That's the worst!

    I was not a huge fan of Wild Dark Shore, mostly due to the ending, and looooved This American Woman. It was fantastic on audio!

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    1. Doggo knows all!

      Honestly the only thing that I liked about WDS is that it was so readable. TAW was flawless. I want to see her standup.

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