Saturday, December 28, 2024

2024: The Year in Books

Hey 2024, it was nice knowin' ya.  There are still a few more days in the year but I'm at a good stopping place where I feel that I can say that my 2024 reading journey is complete.  Let's dish!

The Way Back Machine

And of course check out the books page to see what I'm currently reading - which is nothing right now on December 28, 2024 but it won't be too long before I find my next read.

A reminder on how I rate books

I rate books purely based on emotion.  The scale is:

DNF: did not finish.  This doesn't necessarily mean that it was a bad book, just that it was the wrong book at the wrong time for me.

Skim: this is a new category for 2024.  The best case is that I was bored, the worst case is that I hated the book but for some reason felt compelled to "hate read" to the end instead of DNF'ing.

Meh: I finished it, and that's about all I can say.  This makes up for a very small percentage of my reading.

Good: exactly what it sounds like - a good book that was worth my time to read and that I would recommend to others.

Love: I adored this book.

OMG 😻😻😻: This book gave me all the feels and made my toes curl.

2024 compared to 2023

2023: 48 books completed and 10 DNFs.  Of the books that I read, 24% were OMG 😻😻😻, which I felt was a very high percentage.

2024: 78 books completed and 8 DNFs.  It is important to note that I am not trying to read x number of books, and as I've often said, reading is the lowest priority in my life right now.  So what's behind the sharp increase in numbers?

  • Shorter/easier books: lol you will not find War and Peace or Gone with the Wind on my 2024 booklist.  28 of the 76 books were mystery series: Sue Grafton's Alphabet, Linda Castillo's Amish murders, and Joyce Porter's Dover.  These are all excellent books, and fairly quick reads.  If these books were longer my list would be shorter.
  • I'm watching less TV these days.  Not because I necessarily want to, but because I'm finding fewer shows to watch.
  • The real reason is pretty much the explanation for everything that happened in 2024...we got a puppy.   Doggo went through a stage where she liked to wreck havoc downstairs but she seemed to regard our bedroom as a place to nap and to otherwise be a perfect little angel...just sayin' that if you had this situation in your preferred reading spot that you'd read a lot more too.

Format wise, in 2023 I was 59% Kindle, 16% physical book, and 26% audio.  In 2024 I listened to a higher percentage of audiobooks.  That means (1) a higher percent of non-fiction since I prefer to read fiction and listen to non-fiction and (2) I spent a lot of time hiking in 2024 compared to 2023.


Quality wise, this is what 2024 had to offer:

 

At first glance you might think "she had 24% OMG 😻😻😻in 2023 and only 15% in 2024 so quantity isn't quality".  But not so fast!  Here is the full picture:

  • DNF: 17% in 2023 vs 9% in 2024==>good.  Part of the reason for the decrease is that toward the end of 2023 I started sampling most of my books in Libby instead of just blindly clicking the checkout button, which means that the stinkers/books that were not a good match got weeded out early.
  • Skim: this wasn't a category before 2024, and it is possibly a negative comment on the year.  I needed a category for "did not DNF but also didn't really read".
  • Note the lack of a "hate" category - I just didn't read anything that bad.
  • Meh: 21% in 2023 vs 5% in 2024==>outstanding!  Either books are better overall or I'm doing a better job of picking.
  • Good: 28% in 2023 vs 13% in 2024==>the decrease is not bad because spoiler, the "love" category crowded out "good".
  • Love: 10% in 2023 compared to 53% in 2024.  Oh hey now!  I loved over half of the books that I read in 2024.  Remember the earlier point about Sue Grafton/Linda Castillo/Joyce Porter?  Because there are so many of those books, it's hard to point to just one and roll out the triple-cat-heart-eyes, but man oh man did I ever love these books.  I remember waking up at 4 AM on one of my solo travel nights and not being able to get back to sleep and also not being mad about it because I dived right into the Linda Castillo that I was reading at the time.  I can't remember the last time that I read a book at 4 AM or if it's ever happened before in my life.
  • OMG 😻😻😻: 24% in 2023 compared to 15% in 2024.  Add in all of the loves and a whopping 69% of the books that I read this year were knockouts.  That's a stunning percentage.

Where I find books

In all the usual places from all the usual suspects!

Stuff to say about that:

  • The Hot It Books du Jour category mostly likely originated from other bloggers or the Sarah's Bookshelves Podcast, but I just don't remember in the moment.
  • On a related note, it can be hard to narrow down just one recommendation source for a book, and I feel that my source list under represents two of my go-to peeps: Lisa and Engie.  I feel like I often use both of you to "vet" books that I hear about from other sources.  Jess only has one book on the list, but it's a doozy==>it's the first book in the Linda Castillo series, so her writing about this one book lead to me reading 16 books.  The numbers truly don't matter, what this list is saying is that when these folks write about books, I listen.  Let me give you the rest of the links while we're here: Elisabeth, Jenny, Nicole, and Julie.
  • "Famous" blog commentary: 
    • It's a complete shock that I learned about zero of the 86 books that I read in 2024 from The Stripe!  Even so, I love Grace's monthly book recaps.
    • I've pretty much given up on Modern Mrs. Darcy.  With that said, the one book that I read this year that I learned about from her (Woman on the Ledge) was a winner.
    • Sarah's Bookshelves continues to be my number one love-it-or-hate-it recommendation source, and this year skewed much more to the love it side.  Of the 10 books that I attribute to her, four were OMG 😻😻😻, two were love, two were good, zero meh, one skim, and one DNF.  On a related note, the best money that I spent on reading this year was for a Patreon membership to her podcast.

2024 Booklist

Last year I summarized my reading in a nice little spreadsheet...and then posted screen shots of the spreadsheet in my recap!  That was kind of obnoxious then and impossible to do now.  When you know better you do better, so here is the link to a nice tidy spreadsheet if you just want a quick list of books.

And here is the cut n'paste from the books page if you would like a more rambling version:

Sworn to Silence by Linda Castillo.  2024 reading got off to a bang with this murder mystery set in Amish country.  Heads up that the book's opening murder scene and details of the killings were too graphic for me so I had to skim them but everything else about this book was right on the money.  I finished the last page of the book and immediately picked up the second book in the series.

  • How I heard about it: recommendation from Jess.

Pray for Silence by Linda Castillo, book #2 in the series.  We're back in Amish country with murders aplenty.

  • How I heard about it: continuing the series.

Keep Moving: Notes on Loss, Creativity, and Change by Maggie Smith (audio).  If you're looking for a two hour pep talk, this is your book.  Now look, it's no You Could Make This Place Beautiful, but it was a pleasant way to pass the time while waiting for my Libby hold for Place to come in.

  • Same author as You Could Make This Place Beautiful, a book that everyone has heard of.

You Could Make This Place Beautiful by Maggie Smith (audio).  A memoir about the author's divorce.  I'm sorry that she had to go through that, but delighted in her word craft in telling her story.

  • How I heard about it: everyone has heard of it.

No Highway by Nevil Shute.  An engineering thriller!  The new supervisor of an airplane research lab gets up to speed on what the staff is working on and learns that one of the engineers is working on a theory that a popular new aircraft will suffer metal fatigue after 1,440 hours of flight.  And that, um, none of his superiors are taking the theory seriously because none of the planes have that many hours of flight, the engineer is a serious kook, and also because no one really wants to know.  Then one of the planes crashes under mysterious circumstances so the engineer's theory gets some legs.  It's a race against time to find out what happened in the plane crash and how seriously to take the kooky engineer.

  • How I heard about it: a reread of a favorite book by a favorite author.

Pete and Alice in Maine by Caitlin Shetterly.  When your marriage is falling apart, but it's March 2020 so you pack up the whole family and go to your cabin in Maine.  I had a couple of quibbles with the ending, but overall this was a wonderful book.

Die With Zero: Getting All You Can from Your Money and Your Life by Bill Perkins (audio).  A book that encourages you to balance acquiring financial wealth with acquiring life experience wealth.  I've definitely been guilty of focusing on the former at the expense of the later.  Lots of food for thought here.

  • How I heard about it: it's the big hot "It" book with the FIRE crowd.

C is for Corpse by Sue Grafton.  My favorite book in the series so far.

  • How I heard about it: continuing the series.

Dover One by Joyce Porter.  A satire of the Great British Detective novels.  A young woman goes missing in a small town.  There are no leads and there are a lot of people who don't want her back.  When Scotland Yard is called in to investigate, they send their hardly-est working detective to crack the case.

  • How I heard about it: this is one of my all time favorite series that I've read many times.  This particular reread was inspired by Jenny.

Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals by Oliver Burkeman (audio).  I listened to two hours of the six hour audio book and I can't tell you what this book is about except that our time on this earth is limited.  Which made me feel like I shouldn't spend another 4 hours of my 4,000 weeks listening to this book.  DNF.

  • How I heard about it: it's one of those books that everyone is talking about. 

Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing by Matthew Perry (audio).  When you're a big star with a bigger addiction.

  • How I heard about it: everyone has heard of this.

On the Beach by Nevil Shute.  When it's the end of the world as we know it.  This book was written in 1957 and is set in 1963 in a world reeling from the after effects of nuclear war.  Life only exists in southern Australia and Africa, and the ETA on the fallout reaching Australia and wiping everyone out is nine months, plus or minus three months.  So how do you go about your business in this situation?  Everyone keeps a stiff upper lip and tries to live as normal a life as possible.  The story deals with the crew of a submarine who are sent to investigate a radio signal coming from Seattle, where all known life has been wiped out.  If you're curious about Shute, I'd recommend starting with his "not the end of the world biggest hits" such as A Town Like Alice or No Highway before reading this.  Don't get me wrong, he does a good end of the world, but for whatever reason the characters in this book just didn't have the compelling emotional pull that is his trademark

  • How I heard about it: one of my all time favorite authors' most famous book.

Dover Two by Joyce Porter.  A spoof of the great British Detective Novels.  A young woman is shot on a dark and stormy night and remains in a coma until dying nearly a year later.  It's a cold case with no clues, so it's a detective's nightmare.  That's why Dover gets the job!

  • How I heard about it: continuing one of my all time favorite series. 

My Brilliant Friend by Elena Ferrante.  This one started strong but for whatever reason I just couldn't focus and had to give it up.  I skimmed to the end to get the gist and so that I could follow along in the Cool Blogger's Book Club.

Dover Three by Joyce Porter.  The series is a spoof of the Great British Detective Stories, and this one is a retelling of Agatha Christie's The Moving Finger.   Someone is sending poison pen letters to the women in a small English village.  One of the recipients has enough pull to get Scotland Yard to investigate the case, and luckily Dover has a good reason for wanting to be away from home for a while.  It's the perfect case for Dover, since the letters are just a harmless prank...or are they?

  • How I heard about it: continuing one of my all time favorite series. 

Exit Interview: The Life and Death of My Ambitious Career by Kristi Coulter (audio).  A Tell All about the author's career at Amazon.  Sigh it was fine but nothing earth shattering.  Hopefully it opens the door for more Werk Tell All books.

  • How I heard about it: Lisa 

D is for Deadbeat by Sue Grafton.  Did I say that C was my favorite alphabet book?  Well scratch that because D is where it's at.

  • How I heard about it: continuing the series.

Beyond the Black Stump by Nevil Shute.  The story of a straight laced American engineer who goes to Australia and falls in love with an Australian woman...but when he takes her home to meet the folks it turns out that the Outback doesn't mesh with small town 'Murica.

  • One of my favorite authors.  This one is definitely not his best work, but it was good enough. 

E is for Evidence by Sue Grafton.  Forget D being my favorite, E is where it's at.

  • How I heard about it: continuing the series.

By Myself and Then Some by Lauren Bacall (audio).  The "By Myself" part of the book was a juicy memoir about being the hot It model turned movie star and marrying Humphrey Bogart by the age of 19. The "Then Some" part of the book was a snooze so it became a DNF at that point.

  • How I heard about it: I read By Myself a long, long time ago and then my passion for all things Bogie and Bacall was reignited by visiting the site of their wedding on my travelsNicole put this back on my radar.

Counting the Cost by Jill Duggar (audio).  When you're kid 4 of 19 and spend your life working for your parents for free and then you get a letter from the IRS.  This was a seriously powerful book.

Wellness by Nathan Hill.  Um what even was this book?  A small part of it was satire on marriage, parenthood, and modern times and the rest of it was a long rambling mess.  When it was good it was very good and I skimmed the rest.  It was too much page turning to make the payoff on the orgy scene worthwhile.

  • How I heard about it: it's a Hot "It" book that everyone on the planet is reading

Only Say Good Things by Crystal Hefner (audio).  When you have sex with your future husband on your first date...with three other women.  Hugh Hefner's widow tells more than you ever wanted to know, but tells it well.  

Every Last One by Anna Quindlen.  Aw man I've read some good books this year but this is definitely my first 😻😻😻  One day you're a mom to three teenagers and the next day the unthinkable happens.  Please please please please drop everything that you have going on and read this book.

  • How I heard about it: Jenny raved about it in a way that got my spidey senses tingling and I dropped everything that I had going on and read this book.
The Birds and Don't Look Now by Daphne du Maurier (audio).  I'm not a huge fan of short stories, but these two are exceptions.  The Birds was the basis for the Alfred Hitchcock movie of the same name.  Instead of the Bay Area setting of the movie, the story is set in rural England.  Birds attack for no apparent reason, and there is no way to stop them.  Don't Look Now is about a married couple attempting to recover from a tragedy by taking a vacation to Italy.  One night at dinner the husband sees two old women staring at them and tells his wife "don't look now".  For one moment hilarity ensures while the couple try to figure out why the women are staring at them.  And then horror unfolds.  An unforgettable story.
  • How I heard about it: huge fan of the author and of Alfred Hitchcock.  I've read these two stories many times.

Dover and the Unkindest Cut of All by Joyce Porter.  This series is a spoof of the Great British Detective novels, and while all of the Dover books are great, this is the "money" one. Mrs. Dover witnesses a suicide while they are driving through a small town en route to vacation, and the local police pull every string to get Dover on the case.  What is it about this small town where so many men have disappeared for a week and come back with different personalities?

  • How I heard about it: continuing one of my all time favorite series
This American Ex-Wife: How I Ended My Marriage and Began My Life by Lyz Lens (audio).  If you can imagine the books You Could Make This Place Beautiful and Counting the Cost having a baby, it would be this book.  The author is from a Duggar-like background and married a man who didn't support her career but was always happy to take the trash out - well, out of the can but not outside.  I had a few gripes with some of the long ruminations on history (I rolled my eyes when she started talking about Henry VIII but that's just me) and there was definitely a "my marriage was bad so therefore all marriages are bad" vibe.  However, this was an excellently written book and well worth a look regardless of your marital status.
Gone Missing by Linda Castillo.  Book #4 in the series (shhh...don't tell anyone that I read it before book 3).  Several Amish teenagers go missing and Police Chief Kate Burkholder investigates.
  • How I heard about it: continuing the series

The Indifferent Stars Above by Daniel James Brown (audio).  When you're a newlywed moving from Illinois to California, but it's 1846 and you're traveling with some folks named Donner.  If there was ever a book that was meant to be listened to on audio while you're all cozy in your car driving down the freeway on a road trip, this is it.

The Breaking Wave by Nevil Shute.  A WWII veteran goes back home to Australia to take care of his elderly parents, and walks straight into the investigation of the suicide of one of his parents' servants.  Everyone liked her, but it turns out that no one knew much about her and she left no paperwork behind to show who she was.  There's a mystery to solve here.

  • How I heard about it: Shute is one of my all time favorite authors, but I don't remember if I ever read this before I not.  I picked it up because Jenny selected it for her next Shute read, so this is kind of a mini CBBC read.

Dover Goes to Pott by Joyce Porter.  Book # 5 in the series of a spoof of the Great British Detective novels.  When the only child of a small town industrial magnate is murdered, Scotland Yard has just the man for the job.  The only problem is the local industry is toilet bowls and bathroom humor is taboo

  • How I heard about it: continuing one of my all time favorite series

The Woman on the Ledge by Ruth Mancini.  A woman falls to her death from an office building, and another woman who was on the scene is arrested for her murder.  This book started strong, but within a few chapters I was like "uh boilerplate thriller anyone?  And what is with the cliched Hitchcock nods?"  I thought about DNF'ing but something kept me reading and I am so glad that I did.  Yes it's a Standard Thriller With A Twist Plus Hitchcock Nods but What a Twist.  Bravo, and if you're in the market for a thriller please treat yourself to this book.

  • How I heard about it: Modern Mrs. Darcy.  Just when I had almost given up on her as a recommendation source, she nailed it. 
My Name is Lucy Barton by Elizabeth Strout.  It took me forever to read The Famous Book That Everyone On The Planet Except Me Has Read and I am so sorry that I was late to this party.  As soon as I finished it I immediately picked up the next book in the series.
  • How I heard about it: well, everyone has heard about it, but the reason that I picked it up is Nicole's review of Pete and Alice in Maine where she said that Lucy by the Sea is the book that she was hoping for.  I liked Pete and Alice well enough (except for the ending) so if she's saying that Lucy made P&A feel like a disappointment, then it's time for me to finally start reading this series.

Oh William! by Elizabeth Strout.  The second book in the Lucy Barton series.  Looooove.

  • How I heard about it: continuing the series.

Breaking Silence by Linda Castillo.  Book #3 in the Amish murder mystery series.

  • How I heard about it: continuing the series.

What Remains: A Memoir of Fate, Friendship, and Love by Carole Radziwill.  When the summer of 1999 reeeeeeealy sucked.  Carole was married to Anthony Radziwill, cousin of JFK Jr, and was good friends with Carolyn Bessette Kennedy.  All of whom died that summer.

Lucy by the Sea by Elizabeth Strout.  When it's March 2020 and your ex-husband wants you to escape NYC and move to Maine with him.

  • How I heard about it: continuing the series.

The Women by Kristin Hannah.  When you get back from your tour of duty as a nurse in Vietnam and get told that "women didn't serve in Vietnam"

  • How I heard about it: it's the It Book of 2024 that everyone has heard of.
 
Her Last Breath by Linda Castillo.  Book #5 in the Amish murder mystery series.
  • How I heard about it: continuing the series.

Living with a Seal: 31 Days of Training with the Toughest Man on the Planet by Jesse Itzler (audio).  When you meet a Navy Seal at an ultramarathon and you ask him to move in with you for a month to train you.

  • How I heard about it: Jenny

Growing Up Amish by Ira Wagler (audio).  An Amish memoir, and it's not much of a spoiler to tell you that he left the Plain Life.  A nice companion to the Linda Castillo series.

We're Going to Need More Wine: Stories that are Funny, Complicated, and True by Gabrielle Union (audio).  The title of this book is exactly what it says it is.
  • How I heard about it: just one of those books that more than one person has told me to read and I finally got around to it.

The Wives: A Memoir by Simone Gorrindo (audio).  A military spouse memoir.  The author is an exquisite writer. 😻😻😻

The Year of the Puppy: How Dogs Become Themselves by Alexandra Horowitz (audio).  A puppy memoir!  The author is a dog researcher who knows her stuff, but even she found that a puppy is a little more hands on than advertised.  As a first time Puppy Mama, this book made me feel seen 😻😻😻  If you like dogs at all I think you'll like this book and if you've ever had a puppy you NEED to read this book so that you can feel seen.

  • How I heard about it: best book find ever!  I stopped by Arcadia Books in Spring Green, Wisconsin on vacation and the book practically leapt off the shelves and said "buy me".  I immediately checked out the audio book on Libby and bought the physical book for my husband for a Father's Day present.
Dover Strikes Again by Joyce Porter.   Book # 6 in the series of a spoof of the Great British Detective novels.  An earthquake strikes a small English village, and a body is found in the rubble afterwards.  But when it is discovered that the earthquake wasn't the cause of death, it's time to send for the Yard...and Dover strikes again!
  • How I heard about it: continuing one of my all time favorite series.

Within Arm's Reach by Ann Napolitano.  A big ol' family saga...so big that I just couldn't get into it and DNF'd.

  • How I heard about it: same author as Hello Beautiful, which was one of my favorite books of last year. 

After I Do by Taylor Jenkins Reid.  A simple story about a couple who find that their marriage has gotten stale, so they decide to separate for a year to see if they're better apart. 

  • How I heard about it: EVERYONE loves this book, but I was reluctant to read another TJR because I figured that The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo was so good that anything else of hers could never live up.  I finally read it after Nicole gave it the thumbs up.
Private Equity by Carrie Sun (audio).  I was so excited to dig into a werk tell all memoir...until I started listening to it and it was (shocker) just about work.  I DNF'd after a few hours.
  • How I heard about it: um...I don't remember.
The Dead Will Tell by Linda Castillo.  Book #6 in the Amish murder mystery series.
  • How I heard about it: continuing the series.

Margo's Got Money Troubles by Rufi Thorpe.  I have no words besides 😻😻😻  This was a perfect book that made my heart happy.

After the Storm by Linda Castillo.  Book #7 in the Amish murder mystery series.

  • How I heard about it: continuing the series.

11/22/63 by Stephen King.  When you have the chance to time travel and change history by preventing the assassination of JFK.  Or is it really that simple?  😻😻😻

  • How I heard about it: oh man, I've been hearing about this book for years but never did anything about it since there was always a hold list at the library.  Then Jenny read it and I knew that it was finally time to just buy the book already and get in on the fun.

I Capture the Castle by Dodie Smith.  When it's the 1930s and you're 17 and your eccentric family is broke and living in an old castle and the eligible suitors come calling but you just want to be a writer.

Among the Wicked, Down a Dark Road, A Gathering of Secrets, Shamed, Outsider, and Fallen all by Linda Castillo.  Did I just go on a total bender with the Amish murder mystery series and read six of these books back to back?  Oh yes I did.  This series just keeps getting better and better with each book - well, it did until Outsider which I'd rate lower than the rest but it was still good.

  • How I heard about it: continuing the series.

Sociopath: A Memoir by Patric Gagne (audio).  When you're a sociopath and everyone tells you that there is no treatment but you don't buy it so you get a PhD in clinical psychology and take care of business yourself.

All Fours by Miranda July.  When you're planning a solo cross country road trip but get distracted on the first day.  The book had an interesting premise but it fell flat for me early on and ended up being a hate read/skimming situation.

  • How I heard about it: no clue.
God of the Woods by Liz Moore.  The books that everyone adores was a DNF.  I loved her previous book, Long Bright River and had such high hopes for this one, but it did not pan out.  I didn't bond with any of the characters, and when the book decided to jump back in time from 1975 to go into the back story of someone's mom in the 1950's I rolled my eyes and said "I ain't got time for that" and went back to my Linda Castillo bender.
  • How I heard about it: this is a hot It book that everyone has heard of and everyone on the planet loves.  I guess it's just me.

The Hidden One, An Evil Heart, and The Burning by Linda Castillo.  Yep I did it again and read books 14 to 16 in this series right in a row.  IMO The Burning is the weakest link in the series - a previous book already did a death by burning and the motive was a huge stretch for me, but that doesn't take anything away from the rest of the books.

  • How I heard about it: continuing the series!  I'm caught up since the next book doesn't come out until next year.

Your Money or Your Life: 9 Steps to Transforming Your Relationship with Money and Achieving Financial Independence by Vicki Robin and Joe Dominguez (audio).  I first read this book in the summer of 1997 right after I graduated from college and was making $6 per hour as an office temp and it is right at the top of the "books that changed my life" list.  The edition that I'm listening to was updated in 2018 but the advice is timeless.  I would recommend reading it rather than listening to it since I think this is one where you need to take your time and work through the exercises, but I still enjoyed the audio version.

  • How I heard about it: my parents read it and passed it on to me.  This rereading was inspired by Rachel.

Puppy Kindergarten: The New Science of Raising a Great Dog by Brian Hare and Vanessa Woods (audio).  The authors are professors at Duke University and who took on an adorable research project to see if they could predict the traits that make successful service dogs.  I have mixed feelings about this book - on the positive side I did not mind hearing six hours of people talking about puppies, but on the negative side I didn't feel that there was a lot of practical puppy information and in some cases they made it sound a lot more complicated (read: discouraging) than it is.  For my fellow puppy parents, I'd recommend The Year of the Puppy 1000x over Puppy Kindergarten

  • How I heard about it: this NYT article (OK, OK, I said it...you can probably read the article and skip the book).

Be Ready When the Luck Happens by Ina Garten (audio).  It's just my opinion, but I can't think of a single person on the planet who wouldn't adore this book 😻😻😻

  • How I heard about it: dude, everyone has heard about it.

The Return of Ellie Black by Emiko Jean.  A teenager goes missing and returns two years later, obviously having been through some kind of trauma.  But she won't talk about it, so it's up to the detective assigned to her case to figure it out.

A Well-Trained Wife: My Escape from Christian Patriarchy by Tia Levings (audio).  When you're a Good Christian Wife and everyone tells you that the way to avoid having "sit on your head" fights with your husband is to just be a little more submissive.  At first I questioned whether I really needed to read another divorce or Christian patriarchy book, since I've covered both topics heavily in my recent reading (You Could Make this Place Beautiful, This American Wife, Counting the Cost).  Once I started reading the answer was yes and I drank in Levings skilled way with words.  Trigger warning that if this book doesn't trigger you there is something wrong with you.

I Hope This Finds You Well by Natalie Sue.  DNF.  When you sign off all of your work emails with snarky messages in white font so that no one can see it and you get caught. 

  • How I heard about it: it's a hot It book that everyone is reading
     

The Wedding People by Alison Espach.  The Wedding of the Century is taking place at a luxury hotel.  All of the guests are part of the wedding party, except for one woman, who has checked into the hotel to commit suicide.  But she can't get away from the wedding people.  This book is a gem.

  • How I heard about it: it's a hot It book that everyone is reading.

Nightwatching by Tracy Sierra.  A mother is home alone with her two young children when she becomes aware that someone else is in the house.  She can't get to her phone but she can hide in the house's secret room with the kids while she waits out the danger.  This book was tight - suspenseful and the payoff was incredible.

Shred Sisters by Betsy Lerner.  When you're the good sister, and it seems like the bad sister gets away with everything.

Millionaire Mission: A Nine Step System to Level Up Your Finances and Build Wealth by Brian Preston (audio).  The host of The Money Guy show talks money.

You Only Die Once: How to Make it to the End With No Regrets by Jodi Wellman.  A Double DNF - I tried it first on audio and couldn't get into it, so I gave it the benefit of the doubt and tried the book version.  I have the same review as 4,000 Weeks==>I was pretty sure that it goes against the message of this book to spend any of my limited time left reading this book.

The Happiness Trap: How to Stop Struggling and Start Living by Russ Harris.  I can't remember the last time that I read a self help book, but this one makes up for the drought.  10/10 highly recommend.

  • How I heard about it: an article about self help books that therapists recommend.

F is for Fugitive by Sue Grafton.

  • How I heard about it: continuing the series.

The Berry Pickers by Amanda Peters. 😻😻😻

Madwoman by Chelsea Bieker.  When you're sure that you've escaped your past and your kids are driving you nuts, but then you get a letter.  The only thing better than this book is the story behind it.

G is for Gumshoe by Sue Grafton.  Currently my favorite book in the series!

  • Continuing the series

H is for Homicide by Sue Grafton

  • Continuing the series

The Girls from Corona Del Mar by Rufi Thorpe.  When you're the bad girl and your best friend is the good girl, but Life Happens and you and your friend change teams.

  • How I heard about it: Nicole  

Piglet by  Lottie Hazell.  When you're a foodie with food issues and your fiance fesses up to Something Bad two weeks before your wedding.  Great premise, but this one did not land and I skimmed it to find out what happened.

Victim by Andrew Boryga.  When you've been through some stuff and you're a great storyteller...and you realize that you can work it to your advantage.  This started off strong but I got bored quickly and gave it the ol' DNF.

Can't Hurt Me: Master Your Mind and Defy the Odds by David Goggins (audio).  Man, this book is crazy!  And that makes it a must read.
  • How I heard about it: who hasn't heard about this?  I'm giving credit to Jenny.
Peace out!  Happy reading everyone!

12 comments:

  1. Well this was delightful for me to read. I think you heard about Private Equity from Sarah, too. She talked about planning to read it and I was considering reading it and then she said it wasn’t as good as she had hoped so I didn’t read it. I wish I had not read Wellness. You told me to skip it and then a friend raved about it so I talked myself into reading it and I regret it. I considered DNF’ing but I was so far into it!

    I have kind of given up on MMD as well. I rarely get book recommendations from her anymore. I prefer SBSL and Currently reading (I’m in their Patreon as well). I’m also a Patreon to From the Front Porch which is the podcast for a store called The Bookshelf in GA. The owner is like a real-life Kathleen Kelly a la You’ve Got Mail.

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  2. You are so cool, Birchie! I love your reading charts and statistics! I got your beautiful, glittery Christmas card - thank you! ❤️

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  3. I love that there's a Nicole/ Engie 1% mashup! Engie and I often differ when it comes to tastes, but every once in a while we are on the same (heh) page! Also SO glad you have loved the Lucy Barton series. I just read Tell Me Everything and it was a love letter to Elizabeth Strout fans - my review will be up later this week (what day is it, who knows).
    I also rate based on all the feels, and how impressed I was with the writing style, and a whole bunch of other factors that really can't be quantified.

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  4. I love book stats!!! Such a great year in books, Birchie! Your rating system is perfection. I also got a kick out of your "Nicole/Engie" recommendation source.

    I still haven't gotten to the Ina Garten book -- I keep putting it on hold at the library, it keeps coming up, and I keep pushing it back. But I really want to read it -- it's just that I don't have the attention span for it right now. Soon!

    Margo's Got Money Troubles, Woman on the Ledge, and Nightwatching all sound like books I need to read! Maybe in 2025.

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  5. As always, a solid and thorough book review! Your yearly lists with their ratings are my go-to whenever I need a good recommendation, so thank you for putting this together.
    Just a thought—would it make sense to add a “genre” category? Asking for a friend who’s always on the hunt for great non-fiction reads! πŸ˜‰

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  6. I just got Sociopath from the library in audio as per your recommendation. It might even be the first book on my 2025 spreadsheet!

    I'm so impressed you keep track of your recommendation sources. I try, but honestly, I get a rec and request it and then forget within two minutes who the recommendation was. I think I might even take it off my spreadsheet next year because the data is nonsense.

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  7. You are a master of spreadsheets and rankings, and I'm here for it. (basically because I'm not that crafty, but I'll gladly enjoy the benefits of your experiences). I think Be Ready When the Luck Happens is on our book club list, so I'm excited about that.

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  8. I read Sociopath and had some mixed feelings about it (I'm not 100% convinced she really fits the bill of a sociopath - thankfully!, but it also undermined how helpful I think the book would be for people who are actually living with sociopaths), but it was interesting!

    I really want to read The Women, Ina Gardner's memoir, and The God of the Woods. And maybe now The Wedding People since EVERYONE seems to be talking about it.

    I have The Berry Pickers in my nightstand drawer but basically haven't read anything since NaBloPoMo started :( I got out of the habit and then the holiday rush started and I make time to blog, eat, cook, care, sleep, and occasionally veg out to reruns of the Great British Baking Show.

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  9. Such a great post, and I agree with Ernie that you are a master of spreadsheets and rankings! I started trying to track how I got to reading different books this year, but admittedly lost track. Here's to living and learning and reading more in 2025!

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  10. Woohoo - love these book posts! I'm finishing up my final 2024 book this evening and then it's on to 2025. Yay!

    I get SO MANY book recs from Sarah's Book Shelves. Currently Reading is also a top source. I also get a lot from Lisa, too. Or rather, sometimes Sarah will talk about a book and I'll have Lisa vet it for me since I don't always agree with Sarah's recs, haha.

    Whenever I add a book to my Goodreads TBR, I try to tag it with the recommendation source so I remember where I got the book rec - it helps to figure out who is a good rec and who is not!

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  11. I'm realizing I need to read Margo's Got Money Troubles. I almost put a library hold on it, then I remembered how many books I have waiting for me. I"ll read it in a couple months. And, I'm about to finish The Wedding People. I agree- it's a gem.
    Ha, the first scene of the first Linda Castillo book will haunt my dreams forever! Great book though- I also want to continue the series.

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  12. LOL on the comments that 'everyone has heard about this book', because YES, that is how I read quite a few books this year. I got the Ina Garten memoir for my birthday! I'm really looking forward to reading it. :)

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