One night when I was in San Francisco, the thought for a packing post popped up into my head, and I took pictures of my all my stuff. Afterwards, a voice in my head said "No one cares. You're not the first human to do a carry on only trip. There is better advice on the subject to be had elsewhere."
That's true, but a conversion with Julie changed my mind. At one point we talked about why we read blogs, and the consensus is that we both like hearing the really mundane details of other people's lives. I'm always looking for tips and tricks, which you may not get out of this post, but sometimes you have to write the kind of content that you want to see.
Let's go through my stuff!!!
I wouldn't necessarily say that I'm an over packer, but I am someone who takes advantage of the real estate that I have to work with. Most of my travel is by car, and I'm not shy about using my car as a suitcase. In my young adult years, I traveled for work with tools that were not carry on compliant even back in the pre 9/11 days, so I always checked a bag. After 9/11 there was so much stuff on the "no" list that I always assumed that I had to check my luggage. I mean sure you have to pay for it and sure you have to wait to get your bag but flying is expensive anyway and what's an extra wait after all of the other waiting that you have to do at the airport?
However, I take notes when I read blogs and it has come to my attention that carry on only is a thing, and I've seen the phrases "life changing" and "once you do it you'll never go back", so I was curious. The California trip was an ideal time to try things out, especially since I was going to have to haul everything that I brought on public transport and for the mile and a half walk from the Amtrak station to my Airbnb in Sacramento.
I only had to make a few adjustments to my normal haul to adapt it for carry on only. The Swiss Army knife that I always carry in my purse had to stay home and my coffee gear got an edit. I was not going anywhere where I had to look presentable, so I only had to bring casual clothes. I had a washing machine for the Sacramento part of the trip, which was helpful for keeping my wardrobe small.
The Bags
Luggage wise, my previous employer had a gift service for holidays and birthdays, and on one occasion I snapped up a carry on compliant red suitcase. It's a bottom dollar bag, and I'm sure that there is much better gear out there, but the price was right and there is nothing wrong with it. It is not going to last forever, but I plan to use it until it falls apart. Only then will I look at getting something nicer, with potentially more storage space. As it was, the bag did what I needed it to do, and I think I could have gotten more stuff in it.
EDIT: wow it's a small world! I wrote this post on Sunday and I was shocked, shocked on Monday when Kae posted about the extra small bags that she purchased for her family for their upcoming trip. It's the same suitcase!!!
My backpack is a Swiss Army backpack that I've had for over 10 years, have used heavily, and there is zero wear or tear on it. That thing is going to outlive me. It has two laptop sleeves in the back, but I feel like the main compartment is a little small. I'm sure that there is a better travel backpack option in terms of weight and storage space out there and someday I might check out other options, but for now the backpack is what I have and it fits under a plane seat.
I also have a purse that I did not think to include in the pictures, but here she is, and yes I recommend it. It's basically one step above a fanny pack. It's just big enough that I can put everything that I need for the day in it, so I don't have to schlep my backpack everywhere. When I am flying or in situations where I have to carry my luggage, I put my wallet and whatever other pursey things I am likely to need in my backpack, and put the purse into either my backpack or suitcase. That way the airline can't say that I have more than one personal item, and it's easier for me to keep track of two things instead of three things.
Outer Wear
I knew that the forecast was 80s for Sacramento and 60s for San Francisco, so that meant summer wear and slightly warmer wear. Shoe wise that meant sneakers, which I wore on the plane, and my trusty Teva sandals, which went into the suitcase. I brought my rain jacket for the dual purpose of an extra layer and in case it ever rained, and a baseball cap for sun protection. I wore the jacket on the plane, and the baseball cap bounced from suitcase to backpack over the course of the trip. It was very sunny in CA, so the cap was definitely an MVP of the trip.
Packing Cubes
I am someone who is skeptical of packing cubes, but also someone who is susceptible to being influenced by The Hungry Runner Girl from time to time. This post led me to get the four pack of these packing cubes. I used two of the cubes for my clothes, and also snuck a tiny umbrella into my luggage. Between my rain jacket and the umbrella I was so well prepared for rain that it was a guarantee that there would be zero rain in CA, but the umbrella was very handy when I returned home to a downpour.
Here is the side view on the cubes:
And here is what they look like uncompressed:
My opinion so far is that I think I like these cubes, but I'm not convinced that they are 100% necessary. I think I could have gotten my clothes into the suitcase uncompressed, but also I didn't try so who knows. The bags hold a lot of stuff, but they do have their limits if you want to compress them. If you overstuff them, then you're looking at a bit of time to get the compression zipper to zip.
Clothes
Here is my non glamorous wardrobe:
Top row from left to right: all of my non dirty socks, a pair of grey fluffy socks that I use as slippers, two casual short sleeve shirts and one casual but nicer sleeveless shirt.
Bottom row left to right: my cargo skort that was one of my best clothing purchases last year and I absolutely recommend, a more causal t shirt for sleeping and lounging around the house, lounging leggings, and pajama shorts.
Workout clothes:
I had a washing machine in my first Airbnb, and I knew that for the SF portion that I would be walking so much that it was unlikely that I would be working out, so I knew I could skate by with one running outfit. Red tank, sports bra, shorts, socks, and Flip Belt. If I had wanted to work out when I was in SF, then I would have sucked it up and reworn my fitness outfit.
Not shown: the clothes that I was wearing when I was taking the pictures, which were the clothes that I wore on the plane: jeans, short sleeve shirt, and bra (just one, since unless there is extreme sweating I normally wear my bras for an entire week between washes and I was comfortable stretching that to 10 days). Underwear wise, I will leave it for you to decide whether I am a person who does not show their panties on the internet or if I'm Team Commando. If the former is true, then I would have brought enough pairs to see me through the non-washing machine portion of the trip.
Toiletries
In their packed state:
In their "let's look at my stuff" state:
My toiletry bag is fairly new, and I like it a lot.
Top half of the bag, from left to right: epilator (this is more than you need to know but I use it for underarms and the bikini area), deodorant, Gold Bond lotion which is the Only Body Lotion that I Will Ever Use, face lotion (Kiehl's Since 1851 Ultra Facial Cream which is Only Face Lotion that I Will Use at this Stage of My Life if Not Longer), small magnifying mirror.
Bottom half of the bag: shampoo, conditioner (both bottles have been heavily recycled and reused), zit cream because I had a very rare zit when I left on the trip, leave in conditioner, toothpaste.
Small stuff that's hiding in the pockets so you can't see it: tweezers, kleenex, regular and prescription eye drops because I have dry eye syndrome, vitamins, and "just in case" medications such as aspirin, Benadryl, and cough drops.
Outside of bag: the pink thing is a hairbrush, comb, razor (again more than you need to know but it's for my legs because as great as an epilator is for underarms it would take FOREVER to use it on my legs), and my electric toothbrush because I am a princess and I will always make room in my luggage for my electric toothbrush. I didn't include the charger in the picture, but it's basically just an extra cable.
FWIW I am very particular about hair products, and I NEED to have my particular shampoo/conditioner. All body soaps are equal in my eyes, so whatever they have where I'm staying is what I'm using.
Where's my makeup? Easy answer, I don't wear makeup.
Food/Necessities
The orange thing and the blue thing are the components that make up my hiking water bottle. Like I said, I am a thirsty girl who always needs to have water on hand, and this fits very nicely in my purse. The red thing is my pour over coffee filter, and the ziplock stuff is coffee filters and coffee. I've learned the hard way that I cannot count on hotels or Airbnbs to have a drip coffee maker, so that's why the red pour over goes where I go. In an extreme case I would be willing to give up my Trader Joe's French Roast, but this trip was not an extreme case. I only drink one cup of coffee a day, but it needs to be "my" coffee or things can go horribly sideways. To my credit, I survived on airport coffee on the days that I flew.
Not shown: big ol' honking water bottle that goes in the side pocket of my backpack, and snacks. I always carry a stash of snack bars and string cheese as a meal substitute in case I need one.
Once I got to Sac, I went to the grocery store for half and half (a necessity for Coffee the Way I Like It), and breakfast stuff. I got precut fruit cups because they were very cheap in California, and frozen breakfast bowls. I purchased the same things once I got to SF.
Tech
Top left: the two things that I wish were not part of my luggage: a portable monitor and my work laptop. I'm artfully hiding a sticker on the top of my work laptop with my employer's name. Next to that is the charging cable for my work laptop and a mouse, which do not fit into my tech bag, so I just keep them lose and throw them in where ever I can fit them.
Bottom left: Macbook Air, which is my personal laptop. I do not under any circumstances do personal stuff on my work laptop, so that's why I bring a personal laptop. Just like my coffee, in an extreme situation I would be willing to leave it behind, but I don't foresee ever being in that extreme of a travel situation. It is very small and lightweight, just like the name implies.
Black thing: tech bag for all of my cables. Off hand I consider it necessary to bring my Macbook charger, an HDMI cable so that I can connect my laptop to the TV, my Garmin charging cable, the adapter that lets me connect my work laptop to an external monitor, and all kinds of odds and ends.
Blue square thing: my Kindle. If you haven't heard, I'm a reader who does not leave home without a book. The charge on this thing lasts forever, so I usually do not bring the charging cable when I travel. Pro tip: the next time you need a Kindle get the kids' version! It's cheaper and includes a protective cover.
Other blue thing: an air mouse, which serves as a remote control when I connect my laptop to the TV.
Closing Thoughts
If it wasn't for my stupid job, I would have it made. My work laptop doesn't weigh that much and my external monitor doesn't weigh that much, but taken together together they're pretty heavy. I was able to walk around with my luggage, but it wasn't a walk in the park. Without the work stuff and with a better backpack I might even be able to do a "one bag" trip and lose the suitcase.
But other than that, I'm pretty happy with my packing efforts.
What would I have done if I needed to bring nicer clothes? Necessity is the mother of invention, so I would have figured it out. I feel that I had a bit of extra space in the suitcase.
Things that I needed that I did not have: nothing. The only edit that I would make if I had this trip to do all over again is an extra pair of jeans. I was willing to gamble that one pair would stand up to the Thursday - Wednesday stretch that I was without a washing machine. If I continue to work, I can see adding a travel keyboard to my work gear. But for now we're good.
Things that I brought but did not use: nothing. The closest that I came to not using something was the umbrella, but I was very glad that I had it on the soggy walk from the shuttle to my car when I got back home.
So now that I've had a taste of the carry on only experience, was it life changing and would I ever be willing to check a bag again?
That depends! It was pretty sweet not to have to check a bag, so I think we can say that carry on only is my preferred way going forward. But if I couldn't condense it to carry on, I wouldn't consider it to be the end of the world. I know that sometimes planes run out of room and they force you to gate check your bags, so carry on is never guaranteed.
That's my stuff! What would you take on a 10 day trip? Are you a Die Hard Carry On Only or do you prefer to check a bag? If you've written a packing post(s), please leave the link in your comment!
Okay, first of all, I read every single word of this with intense interest so you know I am on Team Mundane Details. Second, in August 2022 my husband and I went to Mexico and I only took carryon, having been so stressed with the pandemic "luggage losing" that seemed to happen to everyone I know. I used to be a full luggage/ carryon/ personal item person, as we have West Jet credit cards - free checked bags - so it was a huge leap for me. AND I AM NEVER GOING BACK. Never! I love just hopping off the plane with my sleek little carryon and going about my business. I went to Italy for THREE WEEKS with a backpack-style carryon. I actually used Kyria as a bit of inspiration! Also, you can almost always wash your panties in the sink if needed (clean underwear is my must have item). To me, the trickiest thing is toiletries. Like you I am FUSSY about my hair products, also I wear makeup, also also also there is sunscreen to think about. But I've got little silicone bottles and I have figured it out - worst case scenario, I'm buying toothpaste at the destination, you know? But for ten days it's pretty easy to have enough toothpaste/ hair products/ etc. in those little bottles. Do I have packing posts? Let me see. https://girlinaboyhouse.com/2024/11/nicoles-favourite-things-the-travelling-light-edition/ and...I feel like I have more? I don't know, I will report back.
ReplyDeleteOh wow, you packed entirely in a backpack! I'm very intrigued by the carry on style backpacks. Instagram knows this, and keeps my feed loaded with ads for these products, which I keep watching so how long will it be before I get influenced and buy one?
DeleteIn a pinch of course I would wash my undies in the sink, but I'm a princess and prefer a washing machine/dryer.
I love these posts too! I always cringe though because everyone else is always WAY better at packing light/ fewer clothes than I am. I somehow usually manage to pack a LOT of clothes in carryons, but every time I say I'm going to do it "lighter next time", and then, I don't. Hahaha. I am definitely a "what if" packer. Also, I think it depends a lot on the weather. If I KNOW it's going to be hot and sunny every day, then that's much easier. If the weather can be very variable, then it's a lot harder for me, because what if it's cold and I really only packed ONE sweater or long sleeve? I'm not going to want to wear that every day! But same thing if it's warmer than expected, and now I only brought 1-2 lightweight tops.... It's a whole dilemma. ;)
ReplyDeleteOur little suitcases should arrive today, so I'm very curious to see how they work out!! Mostly I want to see what percentage of the stuff I already have packed in my larger carryon can fit into the little one! We are still debating if we should all take the new little ones, or take our backpack carryons + little suitcases for the boys, OR chance it and just take our regular carryons!! Guess we'll know soon, since we leave tomorrow!! lol!
Weather makes it tough! I took an insane amount of clothes for my weekend trip with Kyria last year and to Florida in February because the forecast was all over the map.
DeleteLook, if you can get everything into a carry on then there is probably no virtue in taking less stuff. Clothes aren't heavy.
I admire how you managed to live for 10 days with these few items but that's not for me. Unless it's for a weekend I check bags. I want my stuff!
ReplyDeleteNothing wrong with that!
DeleteMy husband is adamant our family be Team Carry-On and now that I've gotten used to it, like Nicole, I'll never go back. It is also nice to not have to schlepp so much stuff around the destination getting from Point A to Point B.
ReplyDeleteI should get John to write a travel post about packing. He does it all the time! He went to Australia for a month (he did have access to a washing machine) and only took a carry-on and he's going to Rwanda next week for a 2-week humanitarian visit and is only taking a carry-on AND still has space despite the insane amount of stuff he has managed to pack. He is hands-down the best packer I have ever met.
I usually write about packing tips with my summaries of what a trip cost:
- https://optimisticmusings.com/paris-2025-recap-my-planning-and-packing-tips-the-real-cost-of-the-trip/
- https://optimisticmusings.com/barcelona-planning-getting-there-how-much-did-it-cost-and-an-unexpected-footnote/
- https://optimisticmusings.com/rome-planning-packingand-how-much-did-it-cost/
But I've never broken it down with nearly as many pretty pictures. This was fascinating and, like Nicole, I read EVERY SINGLE WORD.
Yes to a packing guest post from John!!! I'd love to read that.
DeleteI am firmly team carryon but I have not gone on a 10 day vacation since my honeymoon! I carried on for that trip but it was to Hawaii and packing for a warm weather destination is so much easier!
ReplyDeleteI did just upgrade my carryon because I was using my the carryon I got as part of the luggage set my parents gifted me when I graduated from HS in 1999 and it was really starting to show it's wear. So I bought a Travel Pro hard-sided suitcase because that is the brand that I often see flight attendant using and that's the best endorsement possible for a suitcase for me.
I also have a large osprey backpack that I will use if we will be moving to different locations during a trip. It can fit so much stuff in it. I am debating using it for my Chicago trip with Will because we will be bringing a stroller since many many many steps will be taken and his little legs will tire out fast! But that will be more of a game time decision. That will be an easy trip to pack for since it *should* be nice and I don't need any really nice clothes since, again, I'm traveling with a 4yo. We are going to my niece's musical so I will wear something cute'ish for that!
Aw man that Chicago trip is going to be so much fun!
DeleteI'm fascinated by luggage but I hate shopping for it. Normally I get suitcases from TJ Maxx.
I travel carryon only. It's so much more convenient and much easier to take your bags on public transport and upstairs in accommodation. International economy flights from Australia generally have a 7 kg limit for carry-ons, with only a small personal item allowed (I use a 9-litre sling or a 14-litre foldable backup). They don't always weigh carry-ons, but I have had mine weighed, so I'm pretty careful with that. A trip last year to Spain had a 7 kg weight limit for the carry-on case plus the personal item, which was even trickier. My most recent trip we went business so I had 10 kg which was fantastic. I used it to put in a pair of runners to make three pairs of shoes as well as a couple of extra T-shirts and a book.
ReplyDeleteI do have a post for my 7 kg carry-on plus 9-litre sling pack from a couple of years ago. https://thebrightonjotter.com/packing-a-7kg-carry-on-for-4-weeks/
Eeek! Having a weight limit would stress me out. I never weighed my luggage, but my backpack was quite heavy.
DeleteI loved your post!
I loved every word of this. I am so nosy and it is FASCINATING to see what other people pack on their trips. LOL about the Team Commando or not thing. I am also thoroughly impressed that you used every single thing you brought! When we went on our last vacation, I was super proud of myself for only bringing one dress and one shirt I didn't use. I also feel like the shoe situation is complicated! I need options! Here's a weird thing about me: I will not re-wear the clothes I wear on the airplane unless I wash them first. So there are always two plane outfits that go otherwise unworn. I really really want to join team carryon but I think I am too princessy to make it work.
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing wrong with being a Princess. I have plenty of my own royal standards.
DeleteIG pretty much floods me with carry on and backpack ads, and I see folks throwing in 3-4 pairs of shoes like it's nothing and I'm just like "the laws of physics do not support what I'm seeing".
Love this.
ReplyDeleteI am CarryOn Only, and firmly committed to this. Like you, I choose a colour palette for the wardrobe so that everything mixes and matches. I only wear mascara, so no makeup worries. Shoes are my biggest problem because I can think of a reason to pack eleven pairs even for a long weekend.
Bravo! I lucked out this trip with only needing two pairs of shoes, but if the circumstances had been just a little different it would have been more. I can squish a t-shirt down to nothing but there's a limit to what you can do with shoes.
DeleteI'm team carry-on whenever I can get away with it. I have, though, brought food for meals with the fam-damly and have done so by putting soft-sided coolers in checked bags with freezer packs. When we drive places, I pack huge coolers and crockpots. There's nothing like coming back from a day of sight seeing to a meal already prepared in a crockpot. Huge money savers. Yes, I am budget conscious - why do you ask?
ReplyDeleteWhen I'm not feeding the masses, I try to travel light. For our trip to Italy, I did a carry on only and we were gone for 9 days. I believe I stored a sweater or a pair of shoes in Coach's bag - so yes, I cheated. But, I did bring dressy clothes and mutliple (I think 3) pairs of shoes. I skipped workout clothes because I wasn't working out, just walking 10 miles a day, etc. I think a good bag makes a big difference. I brought like 4 pairs of pants (one being leggins), a sweater, and two jackety things to wear as layers and to dress things up as needed. I wore every pair of pants twice. We had no laundry, so lots of underwear.
My last roller bag was K-Swiss and the wheels have failed prematurely. Mini took the bag on a college visit and it was never the same. Hmm. the wheels don't want to do in the direction I'm pushing them to go in, so until they 'decide' there's always a few minutes of dragging said bag.
Yep, if you're feeding a crew it's well worth it to do what you have to do to bring a cooler and freezer packs. You're recouping the cost and time of checking the bag many times over. It's worth pointing out that a lot of my flexibility comes from traveling alone. When we go on extended family vacations, eating in and free activities are definitely the way to go.
DeleteWhen I get new luggage it's almost always because the wheels are kaput. I'm willing to be stubborn and drag the bag for another trip or so, but it's a sure bet that I'll be dropping by TJ Maxx for a new suitcase.
Well, if I have my way, I love to check my suitcase. I like to pack my full-sized bottles of stuff, and extra "what if" items. I like the freedom of dropping off my suitcase and just have my little crossbody bag with a few important things, like meds & iPad. I love not having to fight everyone for overhead bin space! However, I definitely see the benefits of carry on only for international flights, or ones with several connections. And baggage claim can be stressful! So, there are benefits and drawbacks to both ways I guess. Maybe I'll just stay home! Ha! Ha!
ReplyDeleteYou make a good point - it is nice to not have all your stuff with you while you're in the airport, and to be able to skip the overhead bins.
DeleteOh, by the way, when I saw your title "let's go through my stuff" I clicked on it as fast as I could! I very much enjoyed going through your stuff! Thank you for that!
ReplyDeleteMy pleasure! I'm hoping to kick off a round of other folks showing us their stuff;-)
DeleteWoohoo! Girl, you know what team I am on. As Nicole said, once you go light pack, you don't go back! I am currently traveling with a carry on backpack and a purse (which is like a Mary Poppins bag) because I wanted to do some hiking with the backpack, and I have my laptop with me, which is seriously my heaviest item. I have so far been within the 8 or 12 kg limits. I have a flight on Air Baltic and they are known as being sticklers (like they actually may weigh the items) and I am wondering if I am actually below the 8 or 12 kg limit (I am pretty sure my laptop probably weighs about 5 lbs (~2-3 kg) on its own!
ReplyDeleteI debate your statement about clothes being heavy! As a lightweight backpacker (hiker), I have weighed each shirt to decide what to bring, and there are definitely some that weigh several oz more than others, and those oz can add up!
I think this may be the only packing post I have (can that be right?) https://travelspot06.blogspot.com/2024/11/take-only-what-you-need-to-survive.html but I have one in my drafts that I started in March but have not finished or posted. You have inspired me to finish it and get it out there!
Get that post out of draft!!!
DeleteThe idea of weight limits stresses me out. On the next trip I'll weigh my stuff just so that I have an idea of what I'm dealing with.
Ha, great post! You knew people would love this. IF POSSIBLE, I like to go carryon only. But I give it a 50/50 chance it will work out that way- I've had too many instances where there was not enough room on the plane and I had to check my carryon at the gate (GRR.) On our recent flights to and from Waco, we got our carryons on the plane with us both times and we were thrilled. I'm not opposed to checking luggage if needed, but especially if you're traveling to a warm weather destination, it's not that hard to get everything you need into a carryon.
ReplyDeleteI've never tried packing cubes (should I?) It seems like they would be a nice way to organize things.
I am nervous about having to gate check my bag. It's happened on plenty of flights that I've taken before, but never applied to me since when I check a bag then I only have my under-the-seat personal item.
DeletePacking cubes are a hmmm. It's convenient to have different kinds of clothes in different cubes (one cube for workout clothes, one cube for unmentionables, etc), but once the clothes are in the cube then you're stuck with the shape of the cube. It's very tough to fit one of those cubes into my backpack. I feel like there is no right answer.
This was an interesting peek-into-your-life post ;-) I don’t travel much (unfortunately), but when I do I try to do the carry-on gig as well. Often times, I’ll tuck my purse into a small drawstring backpack to have (what appears, LOL) one less bag in my possession.
ReplyDeleteI always put my purse into another bag for plane travel! It's just not convenient to have it plus other luggage.
DeleteI love posts like these so keep 'em coming! If you ever think, "Is this too boring for the blog?" just know it is NOT.
ReplyDeleteI would love to be the type of traveler who just needs a carry-on, but that hasn't been my life... yet. I am hoping to do a carry-on for my London trip in October, although the weather might make it tricky so we'll see! I'm going to try some compression cubes, though. I have just regular-degular packing cubes, which I love, but I may need some extra help.
I'll be expecting a packing and cube decision post for your London trip!
DeleteI guess a good blogging rule of thumb is that if an idea sounds boring (packing) or weird (state flags) then the rule is get that sucker written and published!