Sunday, November 16, 2025

Weekly Round Up: Since We Last Talked


A semi-weekly round up: early retirement life, eats, workouts, watches, and reads.

Well friends, since we last talked, everything came to pass.  My last day of work was October 31st, and the only snag to my plan to walk my laptop down to FedEx at 3:00 is that my boss scheduled our exit interview for 3:30.  So I walked it down at 3:50!

I am now two weeks into early retirement, and two things have happened: I feel so much better, both physically and mentally, and I've been hella busy.

My first priority was to squeeze in a trip, so I spent the first week of November in Ottawa and Toronto.  It was a great way to relax and to get material for the Canadian versions of this post and this post.


The highlight of Ottawa was urban leaf peeping and being able to walk from Ontario to Quebec.

The highlight of Toronto was...everything.  I used to go to Toronto very frequently for work, but that was 20 years ago and it was all work and no play.  I was more than overdue for a refresh of the city.

[I started working on a trip recap post but found myself with an epic case of blogger's block, so I skipped it.  TBD if I'll get back to it or just let it go.]

Then I came home and got to work!  No, not that kind of work.  I've been living my predicted schedule of learning things in the morning and doing things in the afternoons.

  • I'm almost done with my required CPE to maintain my CPA license (yawn).
  • I've started working on Spanish, which means a Duolingo lesson and then a Pimsleur lesson.  My intention is to keep this pattern up on weekdays.  I have no expectation of ever becoming fluent in another language, it's just a general interest/"let's see what happens" thing.  Right now my plan is to keep at the Spanish for three months, then switch to French, and then to German, and rinse and repeat.
  • I started on a deep clean of the house in the afternoons, but by day two I decided that this was a highly overrated activity.  My goal is to deep clean one room per week, and we don't have that many rooms in our house so this is not a long term project.
I don't have any other trips scheduled as of right now, but that's subject to change at any moment.

Eats

Nothing notable to report.

Workouts

The normal treadmill stuff for cardio, and I've been able to stick to a routine of body weight exercises to kick things off in the strength department.  The main impediment to doing strength before was partly time and mostly because of the tension in my shoulders that would set in by 9:15 every weekday morning.  Now that I don't have those roadblocks, it's very easy/natural to take strength breaks in my morning routine.  I feel stronger, so we'll see where this goes.

So far I've done one group hike on a weekday and this weekend I went to Mohican State Park to start knocking back the trails.  It's a bit of a haul from where I live, but a very beautiful place.



Watching

Lol, Alfred Hitchcock movies.  Plus season two of The Gilded Age.

Reading

Surprisingly, I haven't been reading very much, so this is a shorter list than you would think.

First up is a book I've been hearing about on the Sarah's Bookshelves podcast for a while and I finally bit the bullet and read it.  I Might Be in Trouble by Daniel Aleman is about a writer who wakes up with a dead man in his bed.  Is he in trouble or did he just find the inspo for his next book?  Or both?  It was an enjoyable, not too deep read.

Next up: I rewatched the movie, so of course I had to reread the book.  That would be Strangers on a Train by Patrica Highsmith.  As the title suggests, two strangers get to chatting on a train and find out that they each have a person in their life who they would be better off without.  One of the strangers suggests a simple solution, which is the perfect murder: each man could murder the other person's problem person and that way neither would be suspected.  The only problems with the plan are that the other stranger isn't on board and the first stranger won't take no for an answer.  I need to finish the book to give a definite opinion, but so far my vote is that the movie is better than the book - and there's nothing wrong with the book.

Finally: I've been listening to the Best of Both Worlds podcast for a while, so it was only a matter of time before I started reading Laura Vanderkam's books.  I'm listening to 168 Hours: You Have More Time Than You Think.  I was expecting the message to be "you have more time than you think if you will get up at 4 AM and stop watching TV" but that's not it at all.  It's very interesting.

Peace out!



35 comments:

  1. 168 Hours is a very interesting book. It seems to me that it’s about prioritizing. I don’t know how strict and rigid I want to be with my time, but I tried being disciplined and was able to find 15 minutes a day for a season to draft a manuscript of something I wanted to write.

    I’ll be curious to see how you continue to allot your time now that you’ve entered early retirement. Whatever you do, keep finding fun and chasing joy!

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    1. It is really interesting. TBD on the takeaways.

      I also don't want to be rigid with my time. As long as I'm getting a reasonable amount of things done, that's good enough.

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  2. Well it sounds like you're making the most of your newfound freedom! I am not reading a lot this month, but I will forgive myself, as I read a lot in October! I think many things go in waves. I fully agree with prioritizing hikes over housework though!!

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    1. I forgive you too! We're not in school, so the only reason to read something is because we want to.

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  3. Welcome to the FIRE world, Birchie!
    Two weeks in and it’s glaringly obvious you made the right call. The physical and mental lift you describe says it all!

    The Ottawa–Toronto sprint was the perfect “I’m free” move. Now that you're home, your new routine sounds solid.

    I’m impressed by the language rotation plan! I'm on a 152-day Duolingo streak (French, paid version) and set myself the goal of a B2 exam. I’ve started using Gemini as a tutor, and the combo Duolingo/Gemini works surprisingly well. I'm the type who needs a bit of structure and external "pressure" to keep myself disciplined.

    Enjoy the space! You earned the hell out of it.

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    1. Ooh! Tell me more about how you use Gemini as a tutor! Better yet, I'd love to see you write a post about this. I like Duo because it's visual, and Pimsleur for the vocal part and b/c I feel like the format is a great way to get up to speed on how a language works. I definitely need structure to my learning.

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  4. Boy do I look forward to joining you in retirement in 6-8 years. That feels far off but I know time will fly and it will be here before I know it. I am glad you are enjoying a work free life - but I knew you would! You’ve earned this so enjoy it to the fullest!!

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    1. Sadly you are correct that the time will fly, and it will be here before you know it.

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  5. I think I listened to that podcast only once, when Lisa was on it! Maybe I'll download an episode today. I'll feel bonded with you!
    Yay for a trip up North - Toronto and Ottawa are both cool cities, albeit in very different ways. And hooray for RETIREMENT. Also you reminded me that I have been thinking I need to do a "deep clean" - one room at a time!

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    1. WHAT??? I did not Lisa was on the show!!! Guess which episode I added to my podcast queue?

      BOBW is hit or miss with the topics. Anything on parenting is usually a miss, not because the info isn't good but b/c we're past that stage.

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  6. I am so excited for you and love that you've jumped in with two feet and gotten out to explore more of the world!!! Woot, woot!
    Enjoy those Hitchcock films; that sounds like a perfect start to retirement!

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    1. Many thanks! The world is an exciting place to be!

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  7. I am SO interested in post retirement life! Tell us more!!! Like, day in the life. And yes I think a lot of people assume Laura will say one thing and then . . nope :) And then they are pleasantly surprised!

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    1. When I downloaded the audio book, my first thought was "ugh, it's eight hours" and then I started listening and within a few minutes my thoughts changed to "oh no! It's only eight hours." I am just in awe of the research that she pulled and the way that she builds the narrative.

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  8. Yes, I also vote for DITL posts. Didn't you once do a week in the life during NaBloPoMo? That would be fun again!
    Sounds like you're finally living your best life!!! Your trip sounds great, and I'm glad you didn't mention learning any math (you can see I'm still stuck on that- and also how much I don't like math!)

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    1. Math is for after I finish CPE - so soon! But I only have to try it, I don't have to stick with it if I don't like it.

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  9. Yay! Congrats on the end of the working era! I hear from a lot of retired folks that they are busier than ever once they're retired, so I think you're just doing what you're supposed to do.

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  10. Retirement sounds like it's off to a fantastic start! I really enjoyed Strangers on a Train: The Book so I should definitely watch the movie version, especially if you think it's even better!

    I'm glad you pushed through the blog block by writing something else. You'll get back to the trip recaps, or you won't, and either is a good option.

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    1. I have so many thoughts on Strangers book vs movie! There was a ton of stuff that they couldn't bring into the movie for censorship reasons, so it's like they said "Ok, we'll bring in what we can and make it fun!" The actor who plays Bruno was brilliant and that really makes the movie.

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  11. Look at you - already exploring other cities now that you are officially on your own schedule. Love it. I related very much to the deep clean of rooms that ended up not being a fun project. I'm sort of between books right now. I'm reading Amy Poehler's memoir, but I intend to get a few things at the library while I'm waiting for the Correspondent and I need to follow through and get over there to find my next book.

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    1. BREAKING NEWS: my hold on Wild Dark Shore just came in!!! I get to see what all of the fuss is about.

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  12. Deep cleaning sucks and should be a family effort. I’m glad you bailed on that being a big part of your days. Of course, it’s very satisfying to have it behind you.

    I didn’t know you could walk from Ottawa to Quebec! Is Ottawa in both provinces? I KNOW NOTHING about Canadian geography, except that Yukon is near Alaska, BC is above Washington, Ontario is where I have been, and Nova Scotia and PEI are on the East Coast. Actually, I know more than that. But not much about actual cities.

    Retirement is treating you well, and I’m thrilled that your tension is so much less already! I’ll be thinking of you during my Year End payroll season.

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    1. Ottawa is on the Ontario side of the border and once you cross over you're in Gatineau, QC. The location was chosen because it's close to QC, but far from the US border. The closest thing I've seen are the bridges in Cincinnati that let you walk from Ohio into Kentucky. I guess interstate/province walks just got added to my tourism list.

      NO MORE YEAR END!!! NO MORE W2s (issuing them, that is)!!! Somebody pinch me, I'm dreaming!

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  13. I'm so glad that retirement has made you feel better! It's amazing how you can find things to fill up your days, isn't it?

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    1. Agree! I think I knew that work wasn't making me feel good physically, but I didn't realize how bad it was. I'm just so grateful to be here.

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  14. Hooray for your retirement! Like you, I started on major cleaning and organizing projects that I hadn't had the time or will to do when I was working. It was very satisfying, and I got rid of a LOT of stuff (including tension and anxiety).

    Mohican really is a pretty place. It seems like you're finding lots to do.

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    1. Many thanks! Though now I'm wondering if I have the will to do the deep clean.

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  15. I am so happy for you! I love the daily routine you have going and hope the deep cleans get done quick so you can move on to more fun things. I can't wait for this next back of Hitchcock rewatches - I think you're in one of my bumpier runs of films which will be so interesting to see what you think of them when revisiting.

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    1. Now that you mention is I don't have to deep clean!

      I'm holding back on the Hitchcock recaps so that I don't overwhelm the internets, but here's a little preview between friends. Most of the early 50s movies were better than I remembered. You can see the progression from Rope to Rear Window, and it's kind of neat to watch him take a little break to improve his craft. But that's *most* of the movies. Under Capricorn was such a mess. All I can think is that Hitch must have had PTO to use up and was absent for the entire movie. The Paradine Case was a dog as well.

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  16. What a lovely start to retirement! I can't even fathom retirement. It's so far in the future, it might as well be in space, haha.

    I love the leaf peeping and I'm glad you're finding ways to stay busy and keep your mind occupied. Love it!

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    1. That's how I felt about retirement when I was your age! Things change.

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  17. Your hiking pictures look amazing... and I am so, so happy about your start to retirement. It sounds amazing (especially the "I feel better physcially and mentally" part!)

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